**Good day to you all here my tutors and learners on hive.**
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*Life is cool and amazing. This is one reason why we have to keep on appreciating our existence on the surface. We have to know that living on is never by our power but by the grace of the almighty upon us.*

There are times when we feel like something isn't for us and we try our best to desist from those things. Some might look stinky to us and at times some would appear disgusting 🤮. But still, in this life we find ourselves. ***We just have to know that one man’s food is another man's poison.***

## What do I mean by one man's food being another man's poison?  
Not only a matter of food in this case, it’s a matter of likes and dislikes, love and hate. Meals could be a good example in this case too. I might have a meal to be my favorite 🤩 and my son might dislike it. That’s just normal and natural. Going beyond food, there might be some habits I feel good about and I would love to do it, but to someone else, it’s one thing they hate the most. 

We all have our likes and dislikes. But I see a difference between what we dislike and what we hate. What we dislike happens to be something we can still manage to take into consideration because we just don’t like them in one way or the other. Take, for example, I dislike taking onions but that doesn’t mean I don’t take them. I just don’t like taking my onions 🧅 sliced. I prefer to take it as paste and then have it in my meals. But for hate, it's something we don’t even want to get close to at all. Something we would never want to see appear around us no matter the form it takes. 

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> This would take me to the hive learner's weekly prompt for week 44 edition 3 and the topic to be discussed is **“My Most Hated Thing”.**

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### What’s the one thing I hate the most??  
This time around it’s not about what I dislike but about what I hate. And what I hate might come in different forms, it might come from some kind of attitude or character I find myself doing and I would love to see myself doing it, or one I find others doing to me and I won’t tolerate. It might be some kind of animal I would not want to set my eyes on. 

So when we say we hate something it means we have a strong dislike for such a thing. And one thing I would say I hate the most is **INFERIORITY COMPLEX.**

I hate it when I see people possess this attitude in their life and also I never want to see myself doing such. Inferiority complex might be so harmful to the extent that some people would have to take their lives (suicidal actions) just because of it. 

Many times when we feel inferior it brings about a lot of ill feelings about ourselves, and this would lead us to underestimate one’s self and sink into our weaknesses. An inferiority complex is when one feels insecure about their existence and thinks they are deficient while comparing their lives to others. 

We all have our different lives to live and we can never believe that it’s over until it’s over. There is always a reason behind everything and every happening in our life. When we think low of ourselves we tend to devalue our very existence by killing our self-esteem. 
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There was a time when we were in school. I have a new roommate whom I never knew his abilities and how good or poor he is towards studies but I do know he is a student just like me. Funny enough we are at the same level and in the same faculty. 

I was happy to have someone from the same Department in my room. Then we had a conversation someday about our upcoming exams. We felt it was time to start reading ahead of the exams we have in a few weeks. Then I came up with the suggestion that we should take maybe three courses and read for the week, then we can come back and ask each other questions about the course we read. 

Time passed by and it was time for us to ask each other’s questions. I know that I can’t assimilate quickly and I also forget books I read so easily. I still tried to put in my best. The battle of questions went on for a long, I failed and he also did. I was happy to even see myself answer some tough questions I never expected myself to answer. 

After our exams, our results were out and then I realized how well I have improved in my grades. I knew it wasn’t an easy task I took upon myself. My roommate showed me his results and then I knew I must have gone crazy to get myself tackled by him. 

He was the scholar of his department. He has the highest grade in our year one and also did in year two. I never knew he was a scholar but I did my best to my capabilities. 

After I knew him for who he was, we didn’t stop, rather I developed myself more in my academics. I never felt inferior to him but used him as a motivation to keep going. 

### Inferiority complex has become one thing I hate and would never want to see myself doing.
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