Nowadays, so many people take being single for or as a way to have freedom and what kind of freedom do I mean?
They see it as a way of doing whatever they like, going out with different men or women, fornicating snd doing all other sort of things. Now, the single people are mostly seen as people who fornicate and it isn’t supposed to be so. 

And for the singles like me. I’m very sure that no one wants to be referred to or talked down this way. What do you do as a single man or a single lady? You have to make sure that you look unto the things of the Lord, how you can serve the Lord and how you can serve other people. 

Serving other people doesn’t mean that you have to worship them as you worship God. It only means that you have to serve the Lord through them. By helping them and treating them im various ways in which God has asked us to treat humans. 

https://youtu.be/Re9KrtnNG9g?si=YL0T1SobvbqCvPqo

1 Corinthians 7:34 says; ***There is difference also between a wife and a virgin.
The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.***

If you are not married, you should not care about pleasing anyone or pleasing a man who is not your husband. Since you are not tied to anyone, the only thing you have to care about is pleasing the Lord. 

As a single person or woman, the Lord should be the only one whom you should think of when it comes to pleasing someone. 
Let your body be the temple of the Lord. If you are single, do not use your body to carry out activities that the Lord does not support. 

He wants you to be holy and do just that. The Lord will surely help us.