心態影響人生 go with the flow by abundancelife

hive-105017 · @abundancelife · Oct 29 '22

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心態影響人生 go with the flow

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有時候我覺得人的心態真的會影響自己的一生，例如我的好朋友A，他是我的高中同學，高中時很認真念書，但成績總是無法提高，後來逐漸演變成自習課老是在睡覺，他念完高中後，沒考上他想念的大學，但一直以來，他也沒什麼特別低潮的情緒，他想有好成績，但不成功，他也接受這樣的事實，也許是這樣的好心態，所以他畢了業，還是找到自己理想的工作，繼續沒心沒肺。

相對的，我的另個好朋友B，就是很容易執著在一件事上的人，也許在外人面前B會表現地雲淡風輕，可是對於那些外人看來很困難的目標，B把自己給逼死也不放棄，後來B似乎也扭轉了自己的人生，得到了他想要的一切，可有時我覺得，B或許沒有A過的開心?

其實我和A及B聊過天， B很羨慕看得特別開的A，可A也羨慕不放棄的B精彩人生，後來我才明白，或許能成為好朋友，是因為對方總是有自己欣賞的地方，而自己能夠籍由另個人的人生來擴展自己的視野吧。

雖然A和B都是我的好友，以前的我會希望自己是B，能夠不顧一切達到自己的目標，可現在的我也覺得，也許想得開的A才是最幸福的。

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