I want to say that this is a very good opportunity for me to appreciate my lovely husband. I don't know if he will get to read this post, but I can't talk about an ideal man without mentioning my husband. He has been playing that part in my life and the family, and I am going to be stating some points why I call him an ideal man. 


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First of all, I want us to know the real reason why God created a man. A man was to stand in the place of God in this world and make sure that things are moving accordingly. He is like a supervisor. He is also like the king who should see that his subjects are perfectly okay. Though I just used the word subject just to point out something, not really that we as women are their subject, but just to make it easier for us to understand.


AN IDEAL MANY
like I said before, I just want to bring out some qualities in my husband that made me call him an ideal man. Being an ideal man does not mean that he is a perfect man and don't have his lapsis. He does and every other man does. Sometimes, our problem is that we are looking for a perfect human being on earth, but that is not possible, because man can't be perfect. We have things that we do sometime that shows that we are still humans. So, for any woman to tell me that her husband is not perfect and she wants a perfect man, then she must be joking. The man you see from afar and thinks that he is perfect, isn't perfect and you will not understand it until you get closer, that is when you will discover things for yourself.



WHO IS MY HUSBAND?
A man with patients: he is always patients with me even when I don't understand him. He gently allows  me to see from his own perspective before doing anything. He does this because he needs my support.

A man of prayer: he always pray for his family and make sure that we are fine even when he is not fine. Sometimes, he doesn't even want us to know that he is not fine.

A man full of love: his love for us makes him not to remember himself even when he has money. He tries to make sure his family is okay.

A man that will do anything lawful to feed his family:  I can see him moving up and down when there is no food to put in the table for the family

A man that makes sure that his family is happy: Even at his own detriment. Sometimes he sacrifice his own happiness for us to be happy. 

I will love to conclude by saying that men do  have their own problems and needs someone to care for them. We sometimes forget this and only expect them to do everything for us and never care about the problems of the male gender. They are also human being and should be seen as one too.

I want to invite @fasacity to share with us his experience as a man and also a human. 

Thanks for hopping in to my blog today. Stay bless and out of trouble.