
IT'S MY LIFE
Absolutely it is. Everything we do, is, consciously or tacitly, our choice. Being happy or low, enthused or burdened, is consciously or tacitly, our choice. So instead of acting like a victim, feeling sorry for ourselves or blaming the world let's just take responsibility for our lives.
If there's something in our lives we don't like, let's just step up and change it. If there's something in our life which is lacking, let's just go and make it happen. Let's stand up for ourselves, draw lines, cut out what we don't want. Let's set goals and take the onus of achieving them.
We can go on making excuses, feeling bad. Meanwhile life is passing us by. Let's instead take charge and start living. 
If you can not get the "why" of your life you may never know the "what" of of your existence and this come by knowing WHO u are and HOW u want to live your life.
Who are you?(question of identity)
Why am I here on earth? (question of purpose)
What can I do? (Question of potential and gifting)
How do I know who what to do, why am here and what I can do?(question of self discovery)
Our life began to take a New phase when We gradually find answers to these BIG questions.