I really appreciate that people here are doing their best to get away from spam, but sometimes it's quite **painful** and totally not fair when people downvote posts just right away saying it's spam without even trying to look up if it really is as you think. This is what happened to me. 

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[wifeinfocus.com](http://wifeinfocus.com/) is my blog, all articles there are my work, I believe it's fine to place the content anywhere you want as long as you are the author of that content and have no other obligations. 

I also must say that since I've discovered Steemet I do write all my posts here and initially they are created specially for Steemit platform. Only some articles which I consider relevant to my blog are published there as well. 

It's barely possible for one person to create high quality unique content for two different blogs, as here on Steemit and my own blog. Especially it's hard for me as I'm a new blogger. I also have a four-months-old child to take care of. I started my own blog a few months ago before learning about Steemit and as some of you might know, it's really hard enough to develop your own blog for you to be willing to make it even harder. :( 

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I rarely post more than one post a day, because it takes at the very least 4-6 hours to write a good post for me, often even more. I am working hard and doing my best. I love it here on Steemit and am devoting a lot of time writing articles here, reading the articles of others, learning and acquiring new information. I also am willing to continue the work on my own blog as it's my dream and I've set certain goals.  

On the facebook page of my blog I had an update right away two weeks ago that I am joining Steemit, here is a screenshot, you may also [visit my page](https://www.facebook.com/wifeinfocus) in order to see it for yourself. 

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Please, if you are willing to downvote somebody or leave an unpleasant comment, firstly just do your best to make sure it actually IS a copy-paste of somebody else's work, which in my case is certainly NOT. 

**Thank you** for reading this, I really hope at least some steemians will start to be more careful and prudent in their votes and comments. Wish you **all the best luck**, and stay **friendly**! 

*Yours,
Aleksandra*