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Mi hija cumplió el día 18 de marzo los 5 años , para ella fue todo un acontecimiento pues sabe que va a comenzara el preescolar y para ella significa ser una niña grande. 

My daughter turned 5 years old on March 18, it was a big event for her because she knows that she is going to start preschool and for her it means to be a big girl. 
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Mi hija es una niña mas que feliz , sincera , alegre, de esos niños que entran a un lugar y todo se ilumina con su forma de ser. Es imposible no amarla, pero mi hija no ha podido tener nunca un gran cumpleaños como ella desearía a su corta edad , una fiesta llena de niños , payasos y toda la gran familia que tiene reunida , pues sus cumpleaños son todos rodeados de situaciones tristes o muy complicados para nosotros los grandes de la casa como dice ella , mi frustración como mama es solamente esa que aun no he podido planificarle un cumpleaños donde no haya un accidente o alguien muera , y para ustedes que leen esto pensaran pero no puede ser así esta mujer exagera . 
My daughter is a more than happy, sincere, cheerful child of those children who enter a place and everything lights up with her way of being it is impossible not to love her, but my daughter has never been able to have a great birthday as she would like at her young age, a party full of children, clowns and all the great family she has gathered , Her birthdays are all surrounded by sad situations for us the big ones in the house as she says, my frustration as a mom is only that I have not been able to plan a birthday where there is not an accident or someone dies, and for you who read this you will think but it can not be so this woman exaggerates. 


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primer añito y aun no sabíamos lo que nos esperaba con la COVID 


Pues les cuento , cuando mi niña cumplió su primer año su papa y yo organizamos una fiesta, no era nada lujoso pues ella era pequeñita y solo queríamos que no pasara por alto ese día y ella tuviera el recuerdo cuando fuera mayor , pues dos días antes de celebrar el cumpleaños llego a nuestro país los primeros tres casos de COVID 19 bueno suspendimos la fiesta y solo la hicimos con las personas mas allegadas, es decir la familia de la casa. 

Well, when my little girl turned one year old, her father and I organized a party, it was nothing fancy because she was tiny and we wanted her to remember it when she was older. Two days before celebrating the birthday, the first three cases of COVID 19 arrived to our country, well, we suspended the party and we only did it with the closest people, that is to say, the family of the house. 

cuando llegaron sus dos años la COVID continuaba de hecho era cuando mas fuerte estaba y la tasa de fallecidos se disparaba por día , fueron momentos muy tristes para todos pues perdimos amigos y familiares en esta pandemia , pero decidimos comprar un cake y cantarle en la casa, igual siempre pensando crearle el recuerdo bonito de su cumpleaños pero cuando faltaban dos días su abuela se enfermo de covid , de nuevo a cancelar el cumpleaños y todo en cuarentena por suerte solo fue el susto 

when his two years came the COVID continued in fact was when it was stronger and the death rate was shooting per day, were very sad times for everyone because we lost friends and family in this pandemic, but we decided to buy a cake and sing in the house, always thinking to create a nice memory of his birthday but when there were two days his grandmother got sick of covid, again to cancel the birthday and all in quarantine luckily it was just the scare 

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segundo cumpleaños solo nosotros otra vez 
second birthday just us again 

 llego el tercer cumpleaños y cuando pensamos estar lo mas libre posible y que no había pandemias ya , pues estuvo la semana entera lloviendo y volvimos a ser solos nosotros en el cumpleaños y los 4 años fueron aun peor pues mi abuela falleció y no tenia cabeza para preparar nada ademas que mi niña estaba súper triste aun no entiende el concepto de que alguien fallece pero si entendía que no la volvería a ver  
 the third birthday came and when we thought we were as free as possible and that there were no pandemics, it was raining the whole week and we were alone again at the birthday and the 4 years were even worse because my grandmother died and I had no head to prepare anything and my child was super sad, she still does not understand the concept of someone dying but she understood that she would not see her again.  
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tercer cumpleaños todo mojado , ella feliz y nosotros rezando que no lloviera mas 
third birthday all wet, she was happy and we were praying for no more rain. 
 
y llegaron los 5 y cuando pensamos que la cosa no se podía poner mas fea , pues el fin de semana que era la fiesta hubo una tormenta horrible con caída de granizos e inundaciones que incluso afecto a varios de nuestros familiares una de ellas mi mama que arraso con todo la crecida del rio ,y si yo dando gritos por lo que pasaba y mi hija feliz esperando que pasaran las lluvias para su cumple hable con todos y lo iba a cancelar no me parecía correcto que mi mama estuviera en esas condiciones y yo con un cumpleaños armado.  
pero mi mama guerrera al fin y abuela devota me dijo sigo viva lo material se recupera , vamos a seguir con el cumpleaños. así lo hicimos mi hija tuvo un cumpleaños feliz para ella por que se lo merece pero para nosotros marzo se convierte en el mes del miedo , ya estamos pensando en que desgracia nos vendrá para el año que viene con sus 6 años por suerte ella es una beba inocente que no entiende y no sabe lo que sucede y aunque nos ve preocupados cuando se encienden esas velas y cantamos todo desaparece y solo existe ese momento donde ella es feliz y ya eso para nosotros vale cada dolor de cabeza que pasemos y no, no es una novela de terror es todos los marzo de mi vida y los tratare de sobrevivir a todos 
and the 5 arrived and when we thought that things could not get any uglier, because the weekend that was the party there was a horrible storm with hail and floods that even affected several of our relatives, one of them my mother that swept away the flooding of the river, and if I was screaming about what was happening and my daughter happy waiting for the rains to pass for her birthday I talked to everyone and was going to cancel it did not seem right that my mother was in those conditions and me with a birthday armed.  
But my mother, a warrior at last and a devoted grandmother, told me that I am still alive, the material things are recovering, we are going to continue with the birthday. So we did my daughter had a happy birthday for her because she deserves it but for us March becomes the month of fear, we are already thinking about what misfortune will come next year with her 6 years old luckily she is an innocent baby who does not understand and does not know what happens and although she sees us worried when we light those candles and sing everything disappears and there is only that moment where she is happy and that for us is worth every headache we go through and no, it is not a horror novel is all the March of my life and I will try to survive them all. 
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