Los años te enseñan que no solo pasan y pasan, sino que tambien te sientes tan comodo con algunas compañias que sientes que son para toda la vida, a esos les llamamos buenos amigos. Hoy realmente me levante de un excelente humor como realmente que deberia ser siempre, y empece a analizar lo rudo que ha sido para mi conseguir amigos genuinos en la vida, pero ultimamente he compartido mucho con una de mis mejores amigas y realmente me di cuenta que la vida se hace tan pero tan facil cuando se queda hasta semanas aqui en mi casa, mi familia por supuesto que la adora y no solo la adoran ellos, sino que yo siento profundo amor, respeto y admiracion por ella por todo lo que ha pasado y que he sido testigo de eso. "Vivir" el tiempo que se queda aqui compartiendo mi espacio mis cambios de humor, mis desacuerdos con mi familia, lo cual ultimamente no son la gran cosa pero que a cualquiera pudieran hacer sentir algo incomodo. La plenitud de sentirte comodo con alguien que NO es tu pareja es algo que no muchos tienen la dicha de experimentar, cosa que afortunadamente a mi si me sucede, puedo dormir totalmente sin ropa en la misma cama con sabanas diferentes sin que haya incomodidades porque puede que quien este desnudo sea yo o sea ella.
>The years teach you that not only do they come and go, but you also feel so comfortable with some companions that you feel they are for life, those we call good friends. Today I really woke up in a great mood as I really should always be, and I started to analyze how hard it has been for me to get genuine friends in life, but lately I have shared a lot with one of my best friends and I really realized that life becomes so but so easy when she stays even weeks here in my house, my family of course adores her and not only they adore her, but I feel deep love, respect and admiration for her for everything she has been through and I have witnessed that. "Living" the time that she stays here sharing my space, my mood swings, my disagreements with my family, which lately are not a big deal but could make anyone feel uncomfortable. The fullness of feeling comfortable with someone who is NOT your partner is something that not many have the joy of experiencing, which fortunately happens to me, I can sleep totally unclothed in the same bed with different sheets without discomfort because it may be me or her who is naked.
Crecer y madurar es entender que siempre encontraras compañia en las conversaciones de media noche cuando ninguno de los dos tiene nada de sueño, no quieren ver una serie ni una pelicula solo quieren hablar y hacerse compañia, crecer es entender que los amigos pasan por malos momentos y por muchos desacuerdos que pueden hablarse en el momento que sucedieron o simplemente cuando pase el tiempo que curen las heridas que se dejaron, ultimamente conoces personas que se acercan a nosotros con pretenciones de ser nuestros "amigos" y realmente no lo son, son personas que buscan su bien comun y solo te regalan una version de ellos que no sirve porque te entregan una amistad a medias, ni siquiera una amistad, te restan tiempo. La verdad es que nunca vamos a saber cuando nos equivocamos, solo viviendo, cayendonos sabremos quienes son para siempre y quien desafortunadamente solo nos robo el tiempo en donde pudimos hacer cosas de provecho en lugar de desperdiciarlo.
>Growing up and maturing is to understand that you will always find company in midnight conversations when neither of you are sleepy, you don't want to watch a series or a movie, you just want to talk and keep each other company, growing up is to understand that friends go through bad times and many disagreements that can be talked about at the moment they happened or simply when time goes by and the wounds that were left heal, lately you meet people who approach us with pretensions of being our "friends" and they really are not, they are people who seek their common good and only give you a version of them that does not serve because they give you a half friendship, not even a friendship, they take time away from you. The truth is that we will never know when we are wrong, only by living, falling down we will know who they are forever and who unfortunately only stole our time where we could have done something useful instead of wasting it.
Señores, compartir nuestra vida con amigos no es mas que disfrutar la vida, que puedas recostar tu cabeza en sus hombros cuando te sientas triste, que puedas hablar abiertamente de tus inseguridades, que puedas llorar sin temor a que se burlen de ti o que tengas el temor que te hagan sentir que tus problemas son menos por el simple hecho que ellos no lo estan viviendo, amigos son aquellos que sostienen tu espiritu cuando tu no puedes sostenerlo, son aquellos que te hace sentir incluido en cada plan que hacen con la intension de hacerte sentir muchisimo mejor y que comprendas que no estas solo, que siempre tienes con quien contar.
>People, sharing our life with friends is nothing more than enjoying life, that you can lay your head on their shoulders when you feel sad, that you can talk openly about your insecurities, that you can cry without fear that they will make fun of you or that they will make you feel that your problems are less for the simple fact that they are not living them, friends are those who support your spirit when you can not hold it, are those who make you feel included in every plan they make with the intention of making you feel much better and that you understand that you are not alone, that you always have someone to count on.
Deberiamos entender que la realidad supera la ficcion como dicen muchos, deberiamos entender que merecemos ser felices incluso con las cosas mas sencillas de la vida, he escuchado historias de terceros en las que sus amigos se revelan de tal manera que prefieren amigos con un estatus social mayor, mas adinerado o de una posicion economica mas alta que la que pueden ofrecer y es triste como relaciones de años se pueden romper porque simplemente nuestro "amigo" encontro a otra persona que lo hace feliz de manera monetaria, porque simplemente le ofrece mejores salidas o le da mejores regalos, amigos mios esos no son realmente personas que queremos a nuestro lado, esas personas no valoran nuestro tiempo o esfuerzo, solo estan por ellos mismos y si eligieron el dinero por encima de una amistad verdadera entonces no merecen nuestro tiempo, nuestra sinceridad, nadie esta absueldo de esta verdad, de fallar, de mentirnos a la cara diciendo que nos aprecian, quieren y aman cuando a la larga no buscan mas que un bien propio, el cual como siempre digo, no esta mal busca el bien propio, lo que si esta mal es pasar por encima de los demas para obtener ese bien. Yo sinceramente los invito a todos ustedes que me leen, a rectificar, a estudiar, a analizar a quienes tienen a su alrededor, si alguna vez han sentido que se sienten presos dentro de una relacion de amistad, si sienten que no pueden opinar o si quiera ser ustedes mismos porque se sienten señalados, se sienten usados o inutiles, no deberia ser asi, deberia ser todo lo contrario, deberian sentirse amados, libres siempre libres, yo estoy sumamente agradecido porque tengo a mi lado a las personas correctas y no puedo pedirle mas a la vida que siempre los mantenga a mi lado para que me sigan llenando la vida de felicidad y de la libertad de seguir construyendo una armoniosa vida juntos.
>We should understand that reality overcomes fiction as many say, we should understand that we deserve to be happy even with the simplest things in life, I have heard stories of third parties in which their friends reveal themselves in such a way that they prefer friends with a higher social status, more wealthy or of a higher economic position than what they can offer and it is sad how relationships of years can break because simply our "friend" found another person that makes him happy in a monetary way, because he simply offers better outings or gives him better gifts, my friends those are not really people we want by our side, those people do not value our time or effort, they are only for themselves and if they chose money over a true friendship then they do not deserve our time, our sincerity, no one is absolved of this truth, of failing, of lying to our faces saying that they appreciate, love and want us when in the long run they are only looking for their own good, which as I always say, it is not wrong to look for our own good, what is wrong is to go over the others to get that good. I sincerely invite all of you who read me, to rectify, to study, to analyze those around you, if you have ever felt that you feel imprisoned in a friendship relationship, if you feel that you cannot give your opinion or even be yourself because you feel singled out, you feel used or useless, it should not be like that, it should be the opposite, you should feel loved, free, always free, I am extremely grateful because I have the right people by my side and I can not ask more of life to always keep them by my side so that they continue to fill my life with happiness and the freedom to continue building a harmonious life together.
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