<strong>Quarrel absolutely all the pairs, there is nothing unusual and wrong in this. But even quarrel must be able to correctly, then the scandal will help to know each other better.</strong>

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<code>Because of what are the quarrels?</code>

- Proving the rightness
- Denial of qualities
- Waiting for negative

<code>How to learn to avoid small quarrels?</code>

When a partner begins to express his indignation, do not start immediately with him in a verbal skirmish. We must soberly assess that a person is dissatisfied with something, <em>and listen to him.</em> And then also calmly let know that he really was heard.

<em>It is necessary to let the person know that he was not only heard, but also agreed with his opinion, recognizing his wrong.</em> This is very important, because a person who starts a conflict simply wants to be noticed, that he is more loved and remembered about him. Probably, to give love to a person with whom you stay in a relationship is not so difficult.

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<em>Yes, avoiding scandals is sometimes extremely difficult. But, if you learn to hear each other, then, perhaps, everything will not be so difficult.</em>