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<div class="text-justify">Hello folks, hope you are all doing well. The average life expectancy of humans nowadays varies from 89 to 54 years. In this period humans have to complete their education, find a job, live life, save for future, with any luck fortunate enough to have retirement then live on the savings and waiting for death to take its course. Some people may succeed in early age and live their rest of life happy, others might suffer to live their lives and struggle in their day to day life. Some may get just enough to live happy with some problems. I put myself in the second type of living. The difference between the expectation and reality is much more than i thought. At the end of every month i divide my salary to meet the debts, savings and expenses and i still get left with some money to spare for other things. When the reality hits its mark in the 1st week itself and lefts me with no money to cover my expenses for the rest of the month. In my language there is a saying called "paavala vastundante padhi roopaayalu karchu avutundhi" (in English: if you are getting a quarter, then the expenses will be 10 dollers).

The patience you get when dealing with the life situations have tremendous effects. The way we deal the situation reflects the one's personality. A person may see a problem in life with solutions, some may see only problems and some may ignore them until it overwhelms them. Type one persons will get their fair share of experience on how to deal the problems in life, second may lose hope in their life, third will not care enough to tackle it. Life problems may differ, but they all are teaching the same thing in our life i.e., move forward either way, if not we will be stuck in the loop hole of life problems. One will need their will to do the right thing.

Eventhough people feelings get in their way to deal with life, like ending thier lives in between a bad and good situation. One who controls their own feelings to deal with the problems while they face, then those people may succeed with their will to put effort. In conclusion there are different aspects of life that we need to go through it to find ourselves a more experienced person than we are before.
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