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LIFE LESSONS: Why Communication is Important in a Relationship by awesomenyl

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LIFE LESSONS: Why Communication is Important in a Relationship
Have you ever feel like you're drowning? Like blah! Because you don't know how to express you thoughts, or feelings? Like you have a lot of things running into your head but you can't say anywords?
Well, let me tell you a secret. I've been there too. I have noticed that most of failed relationships ended because of, (or in connection to) poor communication. 

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They say the most important thing in a relationship is trust, but i think it's actually **Communication**
You have to be able to communicate, express and tell what you feel so that you gained trust. 
It's hard to be so honest, like telling to someone what you feel even if it's good or bad. because it's easy for us to just sit there and listen and just be quiet
**Distance** is not the big factor in a relationship, Communication is and most of all commitment. 

**CONFLICT DOESN'T MEAN BREAK UP**

Just because you’re arguing at this point in your relationship, does not mean you should break up. Just someone is depressed or had a bad week, doesn't mean you should break up. 
Address your problem, express and listen. Listening is also important. Because you will resolve nothing if you / someone is not listening. 
When you feel like you're going to explode because of anger? Take a deep breath, and exhale do it like 5 times. Drink water, and make yourself calm. 
Now go back, go close to your love one or Partner hold his/her hand, look in his or her eyes, perhaps even put an arm around each other. Physical contact will remind you both that it's just a trial 
**The beauty of love is not in the dozen roses on Valentine’s Day, or holding each other in the good times, it’s in staying together despite the imperfections.**
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@livethedream0208 ·
well said, difficult situation myself and been dealing with things in similar ways, the more i look back on it communication wasnt there and we will drift apart
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@pakyeechan ·
It's always true but meanwhile we always neglect these..
One more point to add is don't ever  put your imagination into others or by guessing, everyone's thoughts and value are different. 
You are right, communication and listening are the best way to maintain a good relationship. Conflicts are also good chances for both of us to communicate honestly and directly, treat it as a chance rather than a "breakup"!
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