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The Wrong Friendship: Value Adding by awolesigideon

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The Wrong Friendship: Value Adding
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**It is not a crime to select friends that you can get something from, friends that can add value to you. As long as you're not completely useless yourself, you should be able to add value to someone else's life in one way or the other. 
 The wrong kind of friendship is one that involves you losing in all aspects and stunts your growth.**
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> Invest in Friendships that will benefit you. Friendships that make meaning, all the while knowing that no knew can love you more than yourself. Which is why you also need to have self love and self respect. 

Don't let them take you for granted baby. 💞
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@jhaysnsonofbenz ·
Yes!
A good friend is better than even a brother in times of needs
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@tifaong ·
I've learned that you can categorize your friends into 4 buckets and then you will know where to spend your time with.

1. Battery-draining friends
2. Memory Friends
3. Business Friends
4. Growth Friends

Useless friends are those drains your life battery. Best to avoid contact.

Memory friends are those from your school, university that you still keep in touch once in a blue moon.

Business friends are those that will help you in business or career. Spend more time with them.

Growth friends are rare. They help you grow as a person, they encourage you, they counsel you, they listen to you. Spend the most time with them, because they charge your battery.
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