不知道大家有沒有一個經驗是,一群朋友出遊,總是會一個比一個晚還到約定的地點,有些比較孰悉的愛遲到朋友,我曾經有問過他們的心態,通常都是覺得衣定有人會遲到,與其在那邊等不如晚點再出門,所以另一個也會想到有人會這樣想,決定再更晚一點,所以遲到半小時一小時真的不是少見的狀況。 -- 我以前是一個會提早到的人,有一部份的原因是小時候住在郊區,需要搭班次少而且時間不太固定的公車與朋友相會,所以我會選擇早一些出門,有時候車子太早來了,會再集合地點待上半小時都有可能,當時的我認為準時是一個基本禮儀,所以也持續了一陣子。 後來也因為有的朋友實在遲到的太嚴重,我開始有些不太平衡,決定也不逼自己一定要提前抵達,就是GoogleMap預估車程的時間出門,如果會晚到就在群組交代自己晚幾分到現場,原本以為自己經常得提前赴約,能讓這些遲到朋友漸漸地準時,但可能本來就對準時觀念並沒有注重,所以根本不會認為提前到有甚麼。 --- 雖然我也變成一個偶而會遲到的人,但都是在一些沒有時間壓力的約定上,假若其他人會因遲到的人而延遲後面行程,我會選擇提前準時,但若像是吃飯逛街其他人可以先進行的,我會較隨意的赴會,並不追求故意晚到或早到,也比較不會因為自己每次都很守時,而對遲到的人有微微怒火。 我也不想合理化自己放棄好習慣這件事,確實我因此遲到的次數是增加了,也影響到我上班遲到的次數😣,但精神緊繃的感覺是有放鬆不少,原本的心態都是為了保持守時的形象,所以對於時間特別的緊張,也間接影響到上班之前的睡眠,時常驚醒確認時間,導致睡眠品質非常不好。 --- 自從放下這個包袱後,驚醒的次數有明顯下降,遲到雖然是不好的,其實只要不影響他人的行程,次數不要誇張的離譜,還算是人之常情,其他人還是會有所諒解,以前有個同事是天天遲到,當他一個月有某一天準時到公司,我都會跟他開玩笑你是誰? 這個同事就這樣被貼上標籤,是一個不守時到誇張的人,別人交代事務的時候也許會有一層疑慮在,好在他在公事上面並不會拖拉,算是一個盡責的同事,不過在需要出外務的時候也常會被叮嚀不能遲到,所以等於這個人的形象已經等同遲到二字。 ![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmQSwh2o19MhiLikdqLzDVBxL2ogHjatH2KsRxe6dVovUS/neom_igw_14unnjg_unsplash.jpg) Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@neom?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText">NEOM</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com/photos/igw-14UnNjg?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText">Unsplash</a>
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