I'd personally just recommend(take it with a grain of salt) making these types of videos a little less personal. I mean you can talk about common relationship problems, but I wouldn't specify in your vids that you're talking about your real life other half especially considering hes been in vids with you. I mean even with problems I can imagine it making things worse and rightfully so.....

Beth I could not agree more! Hence I chose to not get married! Not getting married is my solution haha.. but for the ladies who are married. God love em'. I am Mom, and Dad, Maid, and Cook, Repair person.. and so on. I am my own grandpa for goodness sakes lol. Hey Beth if you need a good laugh go listen to this song..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VxLQZPqI2M

xoxo

In a typical rural African setting chores are not a problem because they are divided. Women cook and take of the home while things like chopping firewood, home repairs are done by men.

Can you buy in bulk? I think I would side slightly with him but he should help you out some. Do you guys have a dishwasher? 1 load of laundry a day is not too bad as long as your washer and dryer works well. 
On the other side though I think the man is supposed to please his woman.

Breathtaking video. 

I am extra extra happy with my cooking, caring, laundry doing and grocery shopping boyfriend (yes, we're millennials) after your video. Of course we've had some discussions about how to do things but are now on a point where we both know what we expect of one another. Due to my physical problems we do have a housekeeper, he works full-time and does a LOT in the house too, so some cleaning is done by another person. I do the things I can, he does all he can. 

I don't really recognize a lot from your video if I look at my circle of friends, but maybe it's a cultural thing, here in The Netherlands (especially in higher educated couples) equality is pretty much the standard, even in the household. 

Doesn't mean I don't know women who live with a man who doesn't feel responsible for a lot of things, which is why I've saved this: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2017/may/26/gender-wars-household-chores-comic It has helped some and it has angered some other man, only you can decide if this will help him grow a bit of insight, but at least I find it an amazing 'comic'. 

Good luck and thanks for sharing vulnerably.

Interesting.. as I am heading towards that road I did wonder.. chores?  Hmmm.  I kind of agree. My husband (huh!) and I have been working on first renovating our last house, selling then renovating this over the past three years. He walked out recently. No infidelity. No money issues (not serious enough to cause concern anyway) definitely a lack of communication - BUT that was in the greater part a direct result of being knackered day and night from working and renovations. No time for each other.  Weight gain... I guess if someone was shallow enough to think that was a deal breaker OR the gainers self esteem got busted to zero it could do the trick.  I'm with 3 and 4 and am looking for a way back ... that's the hardest part.  I think above all else the point about giving the men the attention they crave is quite valid.  Even independent, self sufficient men can be attention demanding in one way or another and all too easily we get wrapped up in everything else. Pay attention and you'll talk. Pay attention and they won't look elsewhere. Pay attention and you'll know when things are tipping the balance.... Definitely a key factor.  Well written. Thank you.

Number one reason why people get divorced is because most people marry the wrong person....

Referring to cleaning a house as chores is...

This No 5 got me
>5.Weight Gain

Do people actually divorce because of this? 

Chores shouldn't be left for just woman. But, as an African I've always known that it's in the woman's place to take care of the house and do all the house chore (it biological) but, that doesn't mean the man can't help out if needs be.