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Beyond Fear: Finding Confidence in Connecting with Others by bhattg

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Beyond Fear: Finding Confidence in Connecting with Others
We all are afraid of something or the other, it may be different from person to person, but each one of us has a fear. Yes, everyone tries to show themselves as very fearless and friendly, but there are some things in front of which we become completely helpless and we are unable to do anything. Everyone has different types of fears in their life, it all depends on how their life has been lived or how they are living with people and many other things also matter. We see people around us, some are very confident and some people are always scared of something. Maybe they are afraid of talking to people or you can say that they are a little shy about meeting new people. There is some hesitation. I would not say that I am frank or extrovert, I am also a little shy and you can say introvert too. But still, I try my best to interact with people a little and it makes a lot of difference.


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For example, I have not been that popular, not in my class and not in college. Yes, I have been a little more popular in college than in school, but I think that maybe if I had tried a little harder, I would have been more popular or people would have liked me. And you know because I believe that I had the ability but I preferred to remain silent, perhaps I did not care that much about all these things then and not now. Believe me, many people get the name and then but they are not able to handle it. Yes, you remain famous. After that, things become very different for you and then you are no longer a normal person, and many things change in your life. If I talk about myself, I used to be very scared of meeting new people and interacting with them, it is not that it has completely gone away but now I think that I feel a little more confident than before.



At first, I did not understand why an hour was passing without us and I started thinking about some things in my mind, what would people say or think etc. But believe me, people do not care. Yes, tell me, when you go to the market, how many people do you notice or see, perhaps a lot? Yes, there are some personalities that you cannot live without seeing xd. But many people think that people are watching or will see them, and such thoughts keep running in their minds. Perhaps this is the only reason why they live in fear and perhaps are not able to do anything.


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Earlier I also used to think a lot about all these things, but since I have stopped thinking about all these things, I have felt a lot of difference in myself. Believe me, whenever you meet a new person, talk to him warmly and the person you are meeting doesn't need to like you or like everything about you. It is not necessary that yes, some personalities are like this. Some people believe that they become free, but I am not among them, I am sure of this much. But still, every person is unique, everyone has some skills that make them different from others. When I joined this office a few years ago, I was a little shy, but as I spent time here, I became a little more confident and I said hello brother (greets) to almost all the people on my staff. There are still people in the office who remain completely silent and perhaps most people do not even know their names.

I believe here that if you are afraid of someone then you should face it. I too used to have some hesitation in interacting with people but gradually I changed myself and now I can see the change in myself. Yes, it takes some time for change to happen but you should keep trying continuously, don't just do things for one day and then forget about it. No matter what you are doing, keep doing it continuously because consistency matters. Even if no one is watching you (noticing you ), if you are doing anything consistently, you will start seeing a difference in yourself after some time.


Believe me, since I started giving up my nerves and started talking to people, my confidence got boosted a bit and it made a lot of difference. If you also feel something similar then you should meet people and talk to your family. You should do this or talk to your friends online, but keep talking and believe me, it makes a lot of difference.





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I'm sorry for what happened to you, and I'm glad you were able to solve it and increase your confidence @bhattg
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@mrenglish ·
You were so right to say that we all have our fears. I had to take caution before I could try speaking to someone whether they were new or stale. 
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You are perfectly right. One of the things I also have noticed that affect a lot of people is the fact that the environment they grows in really affect them greatly 
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