create account

Forgive, Forget, or Hold On? The Many Ways People Heal by bhattg

View this thread on: hive.blogpeakd.comecency.com
· @bhattg ·
$11.60
Forgive, Forget, or Hold On? The Many Ways People Heal
A lot happens in the life of all of us; there are some things that we cannot forget even if we try, but there are some things that we forget with time. Many times such incidents happen in our life due to which we get very sad or have a lot of pain at that time but with time that pain and pain reduces and then we become ready to improve things but this does not happen all the time, some people forget things with time and then prepare themselves or turn on the movie. But some people remain there, and they live that moment again and again, or they are not able to move forward from there. You will find all types of people in this world, and you will see that every person thinks differently, and the nature of each person is different.



![hold.png](https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/bhattg/23zGkdckxqthmXdw8ZYp7cguxMK7TYpjtgxeY15tPT3TR6EWyK5xauCVYC7PzL9uUHAbF.png)





[ImgSrc](ChatGpt.com)



Some people forget things quickly, and they are not affected by much. There are people around us who fight at one moment and apologise the very next moment, or they regret their mistake, and they go to that person and apologise and try to make their relationship the same again. See, if the mistakes are not big, then maybe we forgive, but if the mistakes are big, then it takes some time for you to call him and forgive him. Even though the matter seemed very big to you at that time, with time you realise that it was not as big as you thought or made it at that time.


So the first thing is that you should never offend any person in any way. If you offend anyone in any way, then immediately apologise to them. Some people accept your apology immediately, but some people shy away from all these things, and it takes them some time. See, sometimes the circumstances are such that a person is not able to forgive a particular person because the matter is very big but sometimes the matter is very small and we make it very big, see, whenever you are fast in any problem or any problem arises in your understanding, then you should not take any decision immediately, you should think and decide things after thinking and I would like to share one thing with you that you should not do things by coming under the suggestion of others.






Because there are very few people who want the good of others. There is a dearth of such people these days. So you should be cautious and you should check the nature of the people in front of you. Look, many factors depend on how you forgive someone. You should have some rules of your own. Look, there are some people who repeat the same mistake again and again. Then maybe you should not forgive them because if you do, then it will be considered your mistake. First of all, you should try to stay away from such people. If you are not able to do this, then you should not forgive me at all, and you should always stay away from them because you do not know what their next step will be and how they can harm you.


![EMOTION.png](https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/bhattg/242Nv4Z9YNbFhreTZJAhafZP4kaWFHp4gAgYsBitAU64gEmHwJKJnW56xhjPNDEeyAiYb.png)



[ImgSrc](ChatGpt.com)



Such incidents have happened with me many times when I have trusted someone and forgiven their past mistakes, but still they have cheated me again due to which makes it a little difficult for me to judge people, or should I say, to trust people. Due to this, I have a little doubt about forgiving people immediately. One thing is clear that you cannot know about any person completely, yes not at all, just think how many people know about you completely, how many of your things have you shared with everyone, maybe there will be many things which you have not shared with anyone, yes there are some people who share all their things but they have to regret sometime in life that why did they share all these things with others. 

Life takes different turns for all of us, but if you have a chance to correct those things and leave it with a new ending, then you must do it, and you must try to take such steps that can bring peace back in your life.















![k75bsZMwYNu2L3iBMXq5y7xeiy1isFJsZxnMZSXuXEsxe4ee1cUkGyPMyvsFEjsqMVum29EqzdM448JALAPGCYxmma1BA2hwkgBs4TobT8u2FUWuNEA6qyDHYN7rKGsJuQBam3iegsHCFk1kWRCdSmRUctY15BUaJ.png](https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/bhattg/23sx9rSTFqbGri6Y97317NhgYzdWmF6pcw9hgxWFfMVejH9uV7Xz49NTVJDDs3fUUT6od.png)












## ๐Ÿš€ Not on Hive Yet?


Join the Web3 movement โ€” it's 100% FREE and packed with opportunities. No hidden fees, just awesome features! ๐Ÿ˜„


๐Ÿ”— [PeakD](https://peakd.com/register?ref=bhattg) | ๐Ÿ”— [InLeo](https://inleo.io/signup?referral=bhattg)


---


## ๐ŸŽฎ Game On! Play & Earn:


Jump into exciting blockchain games with my referral links:


๐Ÿง™โ€โ™‚๏ธ [Splinterlands](https://splinterlands.com/register?ref=bhattg) | ๐Ÿ›ก๏ธ [Golem Overlord](https://go.splex.gg/?ref=bhattg) | ๐Ÿฒ [HoloZing](https://holozing.com?ref=bhattg) | ๐ŸŽฐ [KryptoGamers](https://kryptogamers.com/?ref=bhattg) | ๐Ÿ’ธ [Free Bitcoin](https://freebitco.in/?r=53632517)


---




<center>


![thanks.gif](https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/bhattg/23vrnHPrczCmajLHMK9qcLYgL9brHK1kd7F33rc7VBbF1DBMdgAJ8nAqcgEJNbY7xDhky.gif)


---


> ๐ŸŽจ All visuals made via Canva. Translated using Google. Content is original.
> ๐Ÿ™ Be grateful โ€” someone dreams of your reality.


---


**Thanks & Regards**
**@bhattg**
*โ€” Together we thrive. Together we Hive.*


</center>
๐Ÿ‘  , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , and 307 others
properties (23)
authorbhattg
permlinkforgive-forget-or-hold-on
categoryhive-153850
json_metadata"{"app":"ecency/4.2.2-vision","tags":["hive-153850","neoxian","hl-exclusive","india","pimp","pob","hive-engine","hl-w178e2","life"],"format":"markdown+html","image":["https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/bhattg/23zGkdckxqthmXdw8ZYp7cguxMK7TYpjtgxeY15tPT3TR6EWyK5xauCVYC7PzL9uUHAbF.png","https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/bhattg/242Nv4Z9YNbFhreTZJAhafZP4kaWFHp4gAgYsBitAU64gEmHwJKJnW56xhjPNDEeyAiYb.png","https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/bhattg/23sx9rSTFqbGri6Y97317NhgYzdWmF6pcw9hgxWFfMVejH9uV7Xz49NTVJDDs3fUUT6od.png","https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/bhattg/23vrnHPrczCmajLHMK9qcLYgL9brHK1kd7F33rc7VBbF1DBMdgAJ8nAqcgEJNbY7xDhky.gif"],"thumbnails":["https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/bhattg/23zGkdckxqthmXdw8ZYp7cguxMK7TYpjtgxeY15tPT3TR6EWyK5xauCVYC7PzL9uUHAbF.png"],"description":"Financial literacy has become very important, and even now, you will find a lot of content online. still, there is a large number of people who are not financially literate. we think that maybe you will","image_ratios":["1.5006","1.5006","19.1045","8.0889"]}"
created2025-08-13 17:44:06
last_update2025-08-13 17:44:06
depth0
children13
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-20 17:44:06
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value11.595 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length5,412
author_reputation1,178,859,387,041,360
root_title"Forgive, Forget, or Hold On? The Many Ways People Heal"
beneficiaries
0.
accountmemesupport
weight500
1.
accountphotolovers1
weight500
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,966,534
net_rshares36,698,626,845,189
author_curate_reward""
vote details (371)
@cheeamaka ·
I quite agree that peace and healing come through forgiving, cause when a person forgives, there's always a lightness that is felt. It's just important that one takes their time.
properties (22)
authorcheeamaka
permlinkre-bhattg-2025813t20226623z
categoryhive-153850
json_metadata{"type":"comment","tags":["hive-153850","neoxian","hl-exclusive","india","pimp","pob","hive-engine","hl-w178e2","life"],"app":"ecency/3.0.46-mobile","format":"markdown+html"}
created2025-08-13 19:22:09
last_update2025-08-13 19:22:09
depth1
children1
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-20 19:22:09
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length178
author_reputation92,970,192,845,085
root_title"Forgive, Forget, or Hold On? The Many Ways People Heal"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,969,918
net_rshares0
@bhattg ·
Yes everyone should take the time to forgive others because if we are doing anything in a hurry then it might be not that much good. We should take our decisions slowly and we should take some time for this kind of things as well. Thank you so much for stopping by and sharing your thoughts have a great day. 

!PIZZA
properties (22)
authorbhattg
permlinkre-cheeamaka-t0yqq9
categoryhive-153850
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-153850"],"app":"peakd/2025.8.3"}
created2025-08-14 02:54:09
last_update2025-08-14 02:54:09
depth2
children0
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-21 02:54:09
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length318
author_reputation1,178,859,387,041,360
root_title"Forgive, Forget, or Hold On? The Many Ways People Heal"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,978,827
net_rshares0
@incublus ·
If you can forget, that's the best method. Because something you've forgotten can't hurt you, right?
properties (22)
authorincublus
permlinkre-bhattg-2025814t15144168z
categoryhive-153850
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-153850","neoxian","hl-exclusive","india","pimp","pob","hive-engine","hl-w178e2","life"],"app":"ecency/4.2.2-vision","format":"markdown+html"}
created2025-08-14 12:14:06
last_update2025-08-14 12:14:06
depth1
children0
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-21 12:14:06
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length100
author_reputation1,011,407,077,092,546
root_title"Forgive, Forget, or Hold On? The Many Ways People Heal"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,987,524
net_rshares0
@indiaunited ·
Indiaunited Curation 1755121481393
This post has been manually curated by @steemflow from Indiaunited community. Join us on our [Discord Server](https://discord.gg/bGmS2tE). 

Do you know that you can earn a passive income by delegating to @indiaunited. We share more than 100 % of the curation rewards with the delegators in the form of IUC tokens. HP delegators and IUC token holders also get upto 20% additional vote weight. 

Here are some handy links for delegations: [100HP](https://hivesigner.com/sign/delegateVestingShares?delegator=&delegatee=indiaunited&vesting_shares=166195.50946160327%20VESTS), [250HP](https://hivesigner.com/sign/delegateVestingShares?delegator=&delegatee=indiaunited&vesting_shares=415488.77365400817%20VESTS), [500HP](https://hivesigner.com/sign/delegateVestingShares?delegator=&delegatee=indiaunited&vesting_shares=830977.5473080163%20VESTS), [1000HP](https://hivesigner.com/sign/delegateVestingShares?delegator=&delegatee=indiaunited&vesting_shares=1661955.0946160327%20VESTS). 

[![image.png](https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/bala41288/46eaz12N-image.png)](https://discord.gg/bGmS2tE) 

<sub>**100% of the rewards from this comment goes to the curator for their manual curation efforts. Please encourage the curator @steemflow by upvoting this comment and support the community by voting the posts made by @indiaunited.**</sub>. 

This post received an extra 20.00% vote for delegating HP / holding IUC tokens.
properties (22)
authorindiaunited
permlinkindiaunited-1755121481393
categoryhive-153850
json_metadata{"app":"hiveblog/0.1","format":"markdown","tags":["hive-153850","neoxian","hl-exclusive","india","pimp","pob","hive-engine","hl-w178e2","life"]}
created2025-08-13 21:44:42
last_update2025-08-13 21:44:42
depth1
children1
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-20 21:44:42
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length1,418
author_reputation101,137,119,772,335
root_title"Forgive, Forget, or Hold On? The Many Ways People Heal"
beneficiaries
0.
accountsteemflow
weight10,000
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,974,574
net_rshares0
@bhattg ·
Aha thank you so much ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜ 
!PIZZA 
properties (22)
authorbhattg
permlinkre-indiaunited-t0yqnn
categoryhive-153850
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-153850"],"app":"peakd/2025.8.3"}
created2025-08-14 02:52:36
last_update2025-08-14 02:52:36
depth2
children0
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-21 02:52:36
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length34
author_reputation1,178,859,387,041,360
root_title"Forgive, Forget, or Hold On? The Many Ways People Heal"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,978,796
net_rshares0
@intishar ·
@intishar "We are humans and we can make mistakes, but we mus..."
We are humans and we can make mistakes, but we must be responsible for our actions and should not hesitate to apologize if we make mistakes. In case of forgiving, I think it's ok if we can forgive others, and it is good for maintaining peace in our minds, but it depends on the kind of mistake the person made. 

!PIZZA
properties (22)
authorintishar
permlinkre-bhattg-yf2znekz
categoryhive-153850
json_metadata{"app":"leothreads/0.3","format":"markdown","tags":["leofinance"],"canonical_url":"https://inleo.io/threads/view/intishar/re-bhattg-yf2znekz","isPoll":false,"pollOptions":{},"dimensions":[]}
created2025-08-14 05:54:03
last_update2025-08-14 05:54:03
depth1
children0
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-21 05:54:03
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length319
author_reputation339,480,537,359,440
root_title"Forgive, Forget, or Hold On? The Many Ways People Heal"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,980,801
net_rshares0
@itsmemic ·
Totally relate! Sometimes forgiving takes time, and itโ€™s okay to protect yourself while healing.
properties (22)
authoritsmemic
permlinkre-bhattg-t0ydki
categoryhive-153850
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-153850"],"app":"peakd/2025.8.3","image":[],"users":[]}
created2025-08-13 22:09:57
last_update2025-08-13 22:09:57
depth1
children1
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-20 22:09:57
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length96
author_reputation106,199,128,057,306
root_title"Forgive, Forget, or Hold On? The Many Ways People Heal"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,975,339
net_rshares0
@bhattg ·
Yes you are right thanks for stopping and sharing your thoughts have a great day. 

!PIZZA
properties (22)
authorbhattg
permlinkre-itsmemic-t0yqo8
categoryhive-153850
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-153850"],"app":"peakd/2025.8.3"}
created2025-08-14 02:52:57
last_update2025-08-14 02:52:57
depth2
children0
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-21 02:52:57
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length90
author_reputation1,178,859,387,041,360
root_title"Forgive, Forget, or Hold On? The Many Ways People Heal"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,978,804
net_rshares0
@lectureme ·
This is a very educative write up, this explains forgiveness in a broader form , and one of the lesson I take from this post is that we don't heal the same way, some heal fast while others heal slow, and many heal from a matter slowly because they made a small matter become a big one, sometimes forgiveness is not earned it's given and sometimes it will not be given" it needs to be earned.
properties (22)
authorlectureme
permlinkre-bhattg-2025813t185327947z
categoryhive-153850
json_metadata{"links":[],"type":"comment","tags":["hive-153850","neoxian","hl-exclusive","india","pimp","pob","hive-engine","hl-w178e2","life"],"app":"ecency/3.3.3-mobile","format":"markdown+html"}
created2025-08-13 17:53:27
last_update2025-08-13 17:53:27
depth1
children2
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-20 17:53:27
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length391
author_reputation7,798,487,621,137
root_title"Forgive, Forget, or Hold On? The Many Ways People Heal"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,966,942
net_rshares0
@bhattg ·
Thank you so much for your beautiful comment have a great day and week ahead. 

!PIZZA
properties (22)
authorbhattg
permlinkre-lectureme-t0yqr9
categoryhive-153850
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-153850"],"app":"peakd/2025.8.3"}
created2025-08-14 02:54:48
last_update2025-08-14 02:54:48
depth2
children1
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-21 02:54:48
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length86
author_reputation1,178,859,387,041,360
root_title"Forgive, Forget, or Hold On? The Many Ways People Heal"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,978,834
net_rshares0
@lectureme ·
Thanks 
properties (22)
authorlectureme
permlinkre-bhattg-2025814t72921616z
categoryhive-153850
json_metadata{"links":[],"type":"comment","tags":["hive-153850"],"app":"ecency/3.3.3-mobile","format":"markdown+html"}
created2025-08-14 06:29:27
last_update2025-08-14 06:29:27
depth3
children0
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-21 06:29:27
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length7
author_reputation7,798,487,621,137
root_title"Forgive, Forget, or Hold On? The Many Ways People Heal"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,981,453
net_rshares0
@pizzabot · (edited)
RE: Forgive, Forget, or Hold On? The Many Ways People Heal
<center>PIZZA!


$PIZZA slices delivered:
bhattg tipped cheeamaka 
bhattg tipped itsmemic 
bhattg tipped lectureme 
bhattg tipped indiaunited 
@intishar<sub>(1/5)</sub> tipped @bhattg 


<sub>Come get [MOON](https://moon.hive.pizza)ed!</sub></center>
properties (22)
authorpizzabot
permlinkre-forgive-forget-or-hold-on-20250814t025257z
categoryhive-153850
json_metadata"{"app": "pizzabot"}"
created2025-08-14 02:52:57
last_update2025-08-14 05:54:24
depth1
children0
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-21 02:52:57
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length250
author_reputation7,716,337,048,215
root_title"Forgive, Forget, or Hold On? The Many Ways People Heal"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,978,803
net_rshares0
@soltecno ·
It's true that it's good to forgive, but it's also true that the person who committed the offense can repeat the same mistake.

It's good to forgive for our own health, and don't forget to keep the person who committed the offense at a distance, for our own good.
properties (22)
authorsoltecno
permlinkre-bhattg-2025814t125411479z
categoryhive-153850
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-153850","neoxian","hl-exclusive","india","pimp","pob","hive-engine","hl-w178e2","life"],"app":"ecency/4.2.2-vision","format":"markdown+html"}
created2025-08-14 16:54:09
last_update2025-08-14 16:54:09
depth1
children0
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-21 16:54:09
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length263
author_reputation96,366,800,925,509
root_title"Forgive, Forget, or Hold On? The Many Ways People Heal"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,993,221
net_rshares0