Using writing as a way to process strong experiences by bigorna1

hive-126152 · @bigorna1 · 2025-07-04T09:25:30+00:00 (edited)

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Using writing as a way to process strong experiences

I am seeing a pattern beginning to emerge where each time I go through a strong emotional experience, I immediately turn to writing as a way to process these experiences.
as some people turn to drinking to forget, it seems I use writing to remember.

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https://ecency.com/hive-122315/@bigorna1/a-smashing-start-for-the
and
https://ecency.com/hive-126152/@bigorna1/the-mother-of-all-synchronicities

the two above previous posts are a good example.

in the first having survived a car accident by pure miracle that have left me shaken for days and with a painful neck and where the image of the massive Eucaliptus tree I was heading toward in great speed kept haunting my dreams for weeks afterward.

in the second where a very spontaneous, this time happening internally, left me astonished and with awe.

I am not a very talkative person. people close to me who know me well know I do not waste time talking, but rather acting.
it does seem though that in writing I found a way to express myself and process what I am going through. it isn´t so much about you reading my message, but rather about me pronouncing it.

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thank you for stopping by 🙏
wishing us all a peaceful 4th of July 🇺🇸
published at 10:10

![Screen Shot 2025-07-04 at 09.39.32.png](https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/bigorna1/23t76y5L5D7gWPME7hdFZrSa5bQfMWuQdrBokDRP5YV5wYH9unqg7CD6eYTUbNZ37k9Qx.png)@galenkp I will appreciate if my content is not muted this time 🙏

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