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How to ask for help right? by blackblockchain

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How to ask for help right?
Considering how  they spend to convince others to help themselves, it's surprising that they rarely think about whether they use the right methods. So, why waste time trying new tactics when you can go straight to science? This article contains some tricks and methods that will help almost any person to get someone's help.

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1 . Explain the reason for your request.
A person should only remember the moment when he was very much in a hurry somewhere, and he had to wait in line for something important. Most likely, he did not achieve something good, if he simply asked: "Can I pass first?". But the likelihood of persuading someone to agree to this proposal would have increased by more than 50 percent if he had added something very important: the reason. "Can I pass first because I really need to catch my flight?" Or even: "Can I pass first, I'm in a very hurry?" 

2 . First listen, then ask for a favor.
This works well with people that people have never met, but you can also talk to someone whom he already knows and still achieve the same effect. So, how can you submit your request in such a way as to increase the chances that people really want to do this? To do this, you need to know who they are and what motivates them.

3 . A real gift in exchange for a person's help.
Like the exchange of information. Charitable organizations use this principle when providing unconditional gifts. But one must be careful when using this approach: providing external stimuli can actually reduce returns in certain situations, especially when it comes to charity.
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