First of all, it is necessary to determine what kind of character traits prevent you from easily going through life. Write them in a column on a piece of paper. And then write down those who would like to have. To more accurately reflect the negative moments of your behavior, ask your relatives and good friends that they do not like you. Believe me, you can be very surprised to hear the answer.

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At the next stage, after determining the character traits, you should think about the ways in which you will carry out the conceived transformation. For example, laziness can be dealt with, accustoming oneself to active activity, and a negative attitude to the surrounding reality - looking for a positive in any situation, ceasing to pay attention to little things that do not depend on you, or changing the color saturation of your wardrobe to a more cheerful.

Change your image can also be an incentive to change yourself for the better. The most noticeable changes in this plan are for women. For example, changing the color of hair from dark to lighter can add to the image, and then to the character softness, romance, coziness. And the dark color of hair positions their owner as a firm, purposeful and strong-willed person.

For a man, the same role can be played by changing the wardrobe. If the guy is considered irresponsible, loose, take a good look at his clothes. Light, informal, sometimes crumpled and stale. And if you dress him up in a suit? The official style dictates the manner of behavior. And if desired, a responsible, collected, strong-willed person will emerge from an untied informal. There would be a desire.

Motivation when working on a character plays a huge role in the implementation of the plan. Think about how your life will change. You can enjoy a rainy day, if earlier the cloudy weather for you was equal to depression. Or, with pleasure, you can finish your business if you have not had time to start it before.