 I should be a spokesperson for all you can eat breakfast at Denny's. A real model late night degenerate. Well you guys are probably wondering how it is going out here in California and what the assessment is. I'm not going to lie guys the situation in the entire United States is looking very bleak for men and relationships. Honestly it is looking extremely bad for most first world countries that have structured the laws a certain way to make it advantageous for women to file divorces. These current generations have seen that with their parents so now the dating scene has went further down the tubes. These comments on this video explain a lot.  Both of those comments seem so true in my experience. It gets so bad seeing women over value themselves so much. Maybe that sounds like a cocky statement but when there are women who are 60lb overweight with 4 kids by 3 different baby daddies expecting guys to be jacked with a six pack and rich. Like that dude is going to sweep that women off their feet. Then to see the women those guys should be with dismissing thousands upon thousands of men. There are so many women who are single and childless now it is unreal. It's like we are seeing extremes on both sides of the dating market. It doesn't make sense for a legit dude to commit to 98% of these women. **My prediction is that in 10 years 80% of women 30+ will be unmarried and childless. Right now we are at 50% which is an alltime high.** The LA scene has been one of the worst dating pools despite millions and millions of people here. The thing is there are actually attractive women here but it is this insane cat and mouse game with these women. What is happening to women is they all believe they deserve a movie star or an insanely rich dude who has beach front property in Malibu. That guy better be 27, jacked, an All Star in 2 major sports, and also be an astronaut. The women are ALL climbing to the top like the zombies climbing over each other in World War Z. Trying to get to the top dudes.  Look, all the women are going for Brad Pitt. Poor guy went through a brutal divorce himself. The issue is most women are going to fail to lock down the top guys and they are being left frustrated and alone. Both men and women are hurting out there and it will get way worse. Look at Tom Brady....dude is a 7 time Superbowl champion. He will probably end up on divorce row himself soon. If a guy like that isn't safe, no one is safe. By most people's perspective I have done pretty good this year overall but for various reasons it didn't make sense to try to make any of the situations long term. Some of the women somewhat showed their crazy side and said stupid shit so it suddenly gets a lot more questionable if the juice was worth the squeeze. I felt that Dallas and Phoenix were the best markets overall for at least gaining some level of traction. Places like Miami and LA are constant quicksand. **What is a guy to do?** Well it has been proven that women are only swiping right on the upper 10% of men. 80-90% of men are unattractive to them. Their reality has been so warped by seeing people on Instagram who are on drugs, using filters, and just showing the highlights that even extra ordinary guys are getting dismissed. They are addicted to rejecting guys in real life as well. Trust me, I have been laughed at in real life cold approaching women. They will just scoff at and act like you are 5'1", 387lb, and have no teeth. **I'm convinced most men should go International.** There could be language barriers and other issues but 1st world guys should go to these other countries to gain some sort of traction. Brazil, Colombia, Bulgaria, Croatia, Lithuania, Argentina...... Sounds somewhat extreme but the mass majority of men are invisible to women in the United States. It is only going to get way worse. High percentage of men are virgins their entire 20's and the simp epidemic has basically ruined the dating market even further. We got women trying to live off free meals from being serial daters on the dating apps. Don't feed these women. If she isn't willing to do something very inexpensive like walk at the park or meet at the beach she isn't into you.  I even built a fire on the beach in Monterey with a chick there. My one friend starts camp fires all the time on the beach for women. It's a big part of his game. There are a lot of simps sending women money to these women's CashApp or Venmo that they have never met. Subscribing to their OnlyFans page or just straight up trying to be a sugar daddy to a lot of these young Thots. In some respects I get how guys arrived at doing some of that if they lost all ability to land women that they could acceptably have sex with without being grossed out. A lot of the times in the United States you either have to date way down, get bossed around, bleed out financially, get divorce raped on down the road. There are very few relationships that I see that seem to actually make sense at least on a surface level. Like less than 1%. Just think about all the unhappy sexless marriages or the high divorce rates. "We grew apart.....I'm not happy" 🙄🙄🙄 **Conclusion** LA is a tough place to really gain traction in unless you are extremely rich and are just really bossing out and have a good look and a lot of status. The best you can do is looks max as much as possible, try to be the most presentable guy, be a James Bond / Great Gatsby type character, have elite game, and realize you still have a very high likelyhood to be forced to date way down. You could hit the International scene sooner than later. At least there is Google translate. Speaking of that, I'm supposed to hang out with this Russian chick that grew up in Siberia that is living here in California. She might be trying to GeoMaxxxx before her visa runs out. If I wasn't so aware I probably would be like Rick Flare and been married and divorced 5 times. 
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I am unsure if invisible is the correct term. Something more like, "shouldn't exist", "bugs", "things would be a whole lot better if they would just go kill themselves". 50% of men are just plain ugly to women. 30% of men are just not attractive at all. 10% of men are ok 6% of men are good, if they have some money or status. 4% of men, yes, yes, yes Back when we pretended we had one guy for one girl. The bottom percentage was like 20%. Now, it is 80%. And wimminz would rather die alone than consider "ugly" (80%) men. 5 minutes of Alpha is far greater than a lifetime of Beta. --- Which makes me think, and think hard. If wimminz do not want to get with 80% of men should we force them in any way to do so? Enforced Monogamy is very great for men and society. A man who has a woman, works much harder to provide and to build. And wimminz are about to pay a horrible price for ignoring a huge portion of men. All that electrical, water and heat you wimminz all like... gone. There are so few young people in the fields that keep that stuff running. System maintenance is about to die of old age. Why work that hard when the bitches won't even give you the time of day... nay, destroy your life for even looking at them. --- My question is the future. When my small community has electricity, water and food What is the bar that i set for women i would allow into my compound? The only thing i know is that the children do not belong to the mother. The will belong to the community. But, after that... what CAN they bring to the table? If we upgrade ROOMBA a little more, ... absolutely nothing.
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It's very true. Depending on the area of the country or what country if it is first world it is basically down to the 95/5 rule and even that upper 5% that is getting traction with women is at great risk for being married for a few years and then getting praying mantis'd because it is often economically advantageous for women to do that. They can just get the guys resources and he can support her from afar while her back gets blown out by savages like myself. I have also said that will be one of the factors that takes our society off the rails. Men just drop out of society for all practical purposes. They have no access to women and what about a situation where dudes just throw in the towel and go monk status. We don't need much at all. A few pair of pants and a few T-Shirts, a sock hat and a hoodie. Guys scale back a lot when they aren't trying to provide for a woman, flex on a woman, or trying to make a woman comfortable. I think this recession / depression will make someone behave differently for a short period of time then it will be back to running wild. At the end of the day there is nothing wrong with a woman deciding to not have kids and getting her back blown out by Chad, Tyrone, and Phobos but a lot of them say they want to have kids "Some Day" and they will be whatever age. 31 or even 40 years old and act like every guy is on thin ice and not on their level. I have had several women basically act like I was just some joke even after I had been hanging out with them and fucking the spirit out of them. I remain a mystery with the women and don't talk specifics about money because I often find it is better to "be" than to verbally qualify myself. Suddenly after they have been talking to me they see me lifting more than my bodyweight 10 different ways. They see me roll up in the Bentley and not even mention it. They watch my Instagram stories and see me at a crystal clear beach again for the 3rd time that week. AND still I'm on thin ice. A lot of guys don't realize how bad it is here and think guys like us are complaining. I have done the field research. You can have all the X Factors, 6'+, Six Pack, Blue Eyes, Driving a Supercar that you own all cash and still be on thin ice with chicks who are technically a date down scenario. I've seen it out there. Most guys aren't getting anything and the few guys that are often don't have sustained traction here. There really isn't a clear answer to it but I have determined that Phoenix and the Dallas Fort Worth area are two of the best places I have seen to gain some sort of footing in the United States. Outside of that I think the mass majority of guys should look get their money up and jump ship to these foreign countries where their money goes way further in their 20's and 30's instead of guys getting to a point where they have lost all traction. I knew a guy from high school that went down to Brazil after college and ended up making a life down there and lots of other young guys from the Midwest did as well. He was ahead of the game. Saw it was a joke here and hit the eject button. We can look at Japan as an indicator. More and more people just being incel type characters and having no interaction with the opposite sex. Suddenly everything just turns into Pay 2 Play for any sexual encounters. It's only going to get way worse over the next 10 years here. I would make a visit to Sweden because those women are so damn hot to me but from what I have heard it is just a big time ultra feminist enclave.
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I forgot to comment, that all the Dennys down here close at 9. Too much homeless around them and their area. ---- Geomaxing is a very good thing. Especially if you are looking for the traditional family. Pay 2 Play.... soon it will include giving you a child. I hope that happens soon. Her body, her choice... right? Marriage today, you should just go in planning to give her a house and a new car.... no string attached...
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