一声“宝贝"，盼了四十多年 | My Relationship With My Parents by canghaiyidi

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hive-105017 · @canghaiyidi · Mar 27 '22 (edited)

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一声“宝贝"，盼了四十多年 | My Relationship With My Parents

自小与原生家庭淡薄的缘分, 使我未能享受到父母的关爱。回忆起阴暗的童年，瑟瑟发抖......

成年以后，父母的越发严厉和苛责，让我既恐惧又无奈，无法走进彼此的心里，唯有相互的冷漠。

父亲一向是威严的，沉默的，就像是既冷峻又遥远的高山，深沉地压著我，永远让我无法触及。

步入中年以后，年老的父亲依旧是那样的强势和不苟言笑，无法接纳他眼里不成功的我。致使我躲在国外十几年，不敢回家。每次越洋电话，听到的都是父母冰冷的语气和拒人于千里之外的敷衍。

那天，父亲接通了电话，似不经意又很自然地叫著“是一滴吗？...... 哦，宝贝，宝贝”。 他用家乡话叫著“宝贝”，我呆住了，心头一片空白......

我意识到，父亲老了，严峻而坚毅的心也软了，人也柔了。

小时候曾经憧憬过，被父母叫著“宝贝”，搂在怀里的情景，以为今生无望。

四十多年了，终于，父亲叫我“宝贝”了。

心里憧憬著，待我晚年以后，虽白发苍苍，却有老父唤我“宝贝”，却也是人生的一道风景......

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@jennyliao · Mar 27 '22

珍惜和父亲相处美好时光。
多年后我才发觉自己是多么粗心大意，现在我要多点关心父母。

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@canghaiyidi · Mar 27 '22

是啊，父母在，根还在，父母若没了，不管多老，终是遗憾

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