我在一个书友群里，名曰“印心”。今天大家不知怎得就聊起了朋友这个词。老师说朋友是志同道合，意气相投。但是朋和友还是有差异的，不说真正的同志吧，意趣和志向共同是一致的，也就是意气相投。 “有朋自远方来”，朋的级别比友大，比友难得，志同道合算朋的范围，情投谊合算友的范围；“朋”的起步价就是“立志”，“有道”，否则谈不上什么志同道合。所以，朋可以友，友不一定朋。能够志同道合的，必是真友。 可是这关系也太稀罕了吧，事实上能有“益友”就已经很稀罕了。所以才有人感慨：做人难，做益友更难。 标准太高，也会容易挨骂。所以简单点，不跟自己玩不到一块儿的人去玩，人家不愿意说不肯说，你就不要跟他玩了。或者你看不惯，你不愿意，你不和他一起玩了，因为不是一类人。这是一个小孩子都知道的道理。 而成年人的世界，只有筛选，没有改变。不要试图去改变别人，不可能改变，除非有一种可能会改变，就是说他自身寻求改变。 两人都能玩一块儿去，互相意气相投，我看你顺眼，你看我也顺眼，大家能玩得很开心，干啥都很开心，这就行了。不要自虐，不要自己跟自己过不去，不要专门到处结仇。 “印心”即心心相印，以心印心，非言语所能道也，但是要和乎心和乎意，做友还是简单点，顺着心意就行了。 
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这个朋、友分论，对我有启发👍
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谢谢，古人是每个字都有每字的含义，不是像现在一个词一个意思
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