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Lets learn to contribute in our relationship/marriage by carenmusings

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hive-124452 · @carenmusings ·
Lets learn to contribute in our relationship/marriage
Am i the only lady who really gets irritated whenever I see some ladies who believe that it must be a man who will take care of all the bills in a relationship or marriage..

Relationship or marriage is meant to be a form of partnership  , you should be a partner and not a parasite  , you should be a help mate , not someone with selfish intentions.. 

Learn to always do your best to make your own contributions in a relationship or marriage , always add value to your relationship  , always make your partner see how valuable you are , do not make your partner see you as a liability,  ensure you make them to see you as an asset and see how much they will keep valuing you..

You will not be valued if you rely on your partner for everything , you need to learn how to stay independent no matter what..You have to learn how to always be willing to take part in responsibilities which occurs in the relationship or marriage.. 

The more responsible you are towards your relationship or marriage,  the easier it will be for you to be able to really witness a successful relationship/marriage....

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@ifarmgirl · 
>Am i the only lady who really gets irritated whenever I see some ladies who believe that it must be a man who will take care of all the bills in a relationship or marriage..

I'm with you :) Not really really irritated but I would say on my thoughts, *"that shouldn't be"* and I am with you on learning how to be empowered and independent as a person and not become so reliant to your spouse or partner or anybody for that matter.
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@carenmusings · 
Yeah getting independent is very important for any human..
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