让女儿当家 by celeste413

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hive-105017 · @celeste413 · 2025-07-15T05:04:30+00:00

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让女儿当家

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_来自姐姐的爱，给我寄了好多奶酪，还有杏干（超爱吃的），还有亲手制作的玫瑰精油，打算一会中午给脖子做个按摩，感谢姐姐❤️_
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_大鸭梨的外卖虽然贵点，但是送了王老吉和酸梅汤，味道都还不错，食材也不错 ~_
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_给自己拍的鲜花照，美美哒的 哈哈~_
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我觉得一个女孩子懂得要东西是好事，起码不会内耗自己，想要又不敢开口。所以女儿从小到大我都鼓励她，想要啥就跟我说，并且大多数时候我都给她买了。但是最近碰到的问题是发现她看到啥都想要买，我都怕和她逛店了。跟她说了无数次家里没矿，完全没用，还是看到啥就想买，虽然家里各种玩意堆放着，都没位置放了。上次六一儿童节吵着要送她礼物，买的洋娃娃，现在也在吃灰，根本没有玩，我都觉得塞位置。劝说看来是没有用了，打骂肯定也是行不通的，避免给她造成“心理创伤”。

于是我灵机一动，让她来照顾我算了。每天给她预算，让她安排我的一日三餐和吃喝玩乐，让她记账。于是她很委屈的说自己不会付款，不会这个不会那个，眼睛里还噙着泪水呢！于是我说那我教你吧。正好那天还剩下晚餐没有安排了，当天已经花了67块钱，晚上还有33块钱的预算。但是她还计划去超市买东西呢，于是我们去逛了下超市，她想买冰淇淋，又想买零食，逛了一圈之后，给她算了下还剩多少钱了，然后她默默的想了下，最后决定要一个2.5块钱的雪糕和一袋9.9块钱的果冻，所以晚饭就只剩下20多块钱了。

去结账的时候，我把支付宝的二维码打开，把手机递给她，由于前面还有人在等着买单，我就提醒她注意遮挡一下二维码不要让其他人拍照到或者让摄像头拍到，以前看过新闻说有人截图了二维码，然后盗刷之类的。女儿听完，很警惕的把手机贴在自己身上。一旦涉及到钱，连小孩子都开始感受到了江湖险恶了。等到女儿付款的时候，手机屏幕已经关了，于是我给她重新打开了，让她体验一下付款滴一下的感觉，付完款，我说该记账了，还给她讲了下该怎么记账，不过实施的人是我，但是步骤还是给她讲了下。

记完账，发现晚餐只剩下20块钱了，于是晚餐的时候把淘宝外卖界面打开给她，让她自己选择晚餐吃什么，于是她开始挑选起来，一会她看到烧烤的一家店，考虑是点一根烤肠还是点两根，后来她决定点两根，一个孜然一个香辣的，她吃孜然的，我吃香辣的，考虑得还蛮周到的，另外两根好像只贵一块钱，不知道她是否有这个考量，后面又点了个烤肉，加在一起正好20块钱左右。于是当天在预算范围内完成了吃喝玩乐的安排，本来以为这个小小的安排就此结束了，但是没想到后面几天女儿都会想着花了多少钱了。

看来不当家不知柴米油盐贵，还是真的，对小孩子也适用呢！下次就这么办了，让她自己安排果然是个好办法，当然这个思路也是源于上次看的一个视频，那个博主讲他从他女儿4岁就开始让她自己管压岁钱，还提到一点很搞笑，说这个年龄肯定不会给男人花钱，了不起就是买了吃的喝的玩的了，确实如此，在家人的保护下，基本上钱财不会瞎花了，还是挺有智慧的教育下一代的方式。这个财商也是需要一个过程的，我好像开始得有点晚，自己也得不断学习，这样才能给女儿更好的指引，让她也学好怎么花钱。


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@adyiron · 2025-07-15T16:10:27+00:00

这种教育方法很好哟～，不但可以提高小乖乖的算数能力，还可以培养小乖乖规划花钱意识