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Dear @ckole,<br>May I ask you to review and support the Dev Marketing Proposal (https://peakd.com/me/proposals/232) we presented on Conference Day 1 at HiveFest?<br>The campaign aims to onboard new application developers to grow our ecosystem. If you missed the presentation, you can watch it on [YouTube](https://youtu.be/MK-tlTw_ctY?t=41).<br>You cast your vote for the proposal on [Peakd](https://peakd.com/me/proposals/232), [Ecency](https://ecency.com/proposals/232), [Hive.blog](https://wallet.hive.blog/proposals) or [using HiveSigner](https://hivesigner.com/sign/update_proposal_votes?proposal_ids=%5B%22232%22%5D&approve=true).<br><br>Thank you!
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Your advice helped a family.
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Thanks for the comment.
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You are really a life saver my dear. I understand you had to sound nasty so that the woman could get the message and build up her marriage. Sure they could be talking about you. I enjoyed reading your article.
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Thanks, ma'am. I'm glad I was able to save the family. It's a privilege. Thanks a lot.
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You're very welcome ☺
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