 We all came across situations where injustice was happening or someone had some problem and saw people just looking at it like it's not their buisness. Most of people don't realize that not helping each other is the core of all problems on this planet. Not only because someone in need for help is not receiving help, it is also creating psychological/spiritual state "every man for themselves". When most of people see that, they decide go to the state *'Let me take care of myself, let others take care of themselves'*. Unfortunaly most of the people are in that state, not because they are bad people, it's because they were thought from early age that we need to fight each other and not to cooporate. Manipulators can't have better ground than target population (everyone) thinking they must fight each other. They are using that with other various tehniques to keep us more and more divided. By far, the worst thing they convince us is that we should ignore problems others have and only focus our intention to ourselves. Even when people can help others, for the most part they don't do it. Why is that happening? Why we just ignore injustice and problems other people have? Of course, there is more than one reason to it. There is many layers to it. I was asking myself how to break down all those layers of it. I will give typical example of homeless man because that is most typical example of someone who need help. That homeless man can be any other situation where someone need help. It doesn't have to be existential problem. It also can be also spritul, physical or whatever kind of problem someone can experience. So, we have homeless man beging for food and money. Why most of the people ignore him? Some of people don't care for his troubles because they don't care about any other being beside themselves. Their perception of the world only comes from their ego. Their ego is controling them by convincing them that *'I'm only important'* and *'I will do something only if it will make my situation better'.* When you are trying to make only your situation more comfortable, automatically you must ignore everyone else. It's reflex action for people which perception comes from their ego. For ego obsessed people problems others have are sort of background image of this world. On example of homeless man, why would they help him if they don't benefit from it?! Some people who can help do notice people in trouble, but don't want to help them intencionally because they have mentality *'Life is thought for me also.* *I'm trying my best and I don't just beg for money like this laisy homeless dudes.'* For those type of people most of their perception come from ego also. Their first premise is to judge someone. They don't stop and ask themselves what circumstances could happen to someone who end up in that situation. Like I said, homeless dude is just example, they will judge anyone who have problem. Their *'Life is thought, deal with it'* mentality is keeping them from helping anyone. They will help only if they will benefit from it in any way. There is also kind of people (most in my opinion) that notice them and really want to help them, but they are so tired from day on slave job, all obligations they have after and only thing they want to in their free time is to relax. They don't want to ignore them and just go by, but for the most part they do it because they just want to relax. That is understandable, but in the end what are they doing different than ego obsessed people? Of course, there is many more reasons why people don't help others. Some of reasons people don't help others can be also based on race, religion, dedication only to their tribe and many more. To write them all it will take a book because human psychology is complicated. I think I named major ones. ### Solutions  We should point to the reasons of the problems, but only pointing to the reasons usually don't change anything. It's more important to offer solutions than just point at the problem. My opinion is that solution is simple and complicated in the same time. Simple in the way that we only need to spread the truth no matter what it is and respect each other no matter what. From that everything will change slowly to the better. When you respect someone, you will never try to stop him in actions that harm no one. When you do that more and more freedom will be expresed, more and more people will not be in the problems. It sounds simple, but that is truth. It's only our mind that is complicating our lives with flase beliefs, so it seems that solutions are complicated. The truth is always simple in the end. In society based on truth there would be way less people having problems. Even those who will have problem will receive help in no time. It's complicated because it involves many things; our perception of money, monetary system, who we are, understanding how we got inslaved, realizing how we got manipulated... basically throwing away all the false beliefs they thought us it's true. On first look that got no connection with people not helping each other, but it is directly connected with it because from understanding how we got manipulated and divided, we will realize why we don't help each other. It's because we got manipulated and divided, not because we don't want to help. ### How do we change into beings who help each other? First of all we must tell the truth no matter what. We must realize that most of problems people have are manufactured by manipulators. How we gonna realize?...Only by spreding the truth. Their manipulation only exist because we are living their lies. By spreding the truth no matter what we will resolve most of the problems automatically. For example if we spread the truth that banks are creating money from air called credit, less and less people will become homeless when banks want to take their home if loans can't be payed back. There is many examples like this in all area of life. People realizing the truth about something is slow process at the times, but there can't be any faster way than simple spreading the truth in whatever situation. Meanwhile we need to let go our perception 'Me me me' and start to look how other people feel. I know life is tough in this world or manipulation, but how will gonna change anything if we don't stand up for each other? *'I have problems also!'* mentality will take us nowhere. Is it so hard to help someone having trouble? Pushing guy in wheelchair, giving homeless few dollars, taking to them, helping someone who is feeling down...there is million little things we can do make situation better on this planet. In the end, why you would expect help from others if you don't want to help them? Looking how you can benefit in world of manipulation only benefit manipulators. Their power over us is coming in many forms. Key one is convincing us we must only look for ourselves and don't care about problems others have. They are only afraid of us coming together. That can only change if we change our perception and start watching thru eyes of another... To be continued...
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The problem at it's root is denial. Denial of truth, denial of reality, denial of real feelings, denial of real desires, self denial, denial of denial, denial of love and on it goes. The ego is not the cause of any problems. It is imbalance in the ego that is involved with so many problems and that imbalance is typically a form of heartlessness where the mind operates without input from the feelings. When people are feeling denied and overpowered, there is a common logic which says that 'there is no point in helping others because i cannot even help myself and no-one else is helping me'. The truth here is that even when we intend to help others, we are unable to help them if we lack the understandings needed to make the called for changes. We always need to start making the changes at home, within us - which means that we do actually improve our own lives before improving anyone else's lives and so there is a hidden judgement that is commonly being denied which says 'if I help myself, I am being selfish'. This judgement is a trap which prevents the needed changes. It is not selfish or wrong to help yourself, it is an absolute requirement of balance for the planet and wider society. Equally it is also a requirement of balance to be open to helping others when it is FELT to be a needed form of help that can be given. The feelings will guide us in this process but almost everyone is ignoring them or at most only listening to them to a minimal amount. Another common judgement that holds humanity back is the false thought that ['power corrupts' - when in truth, we absolutely need power to do anything at all!](https://steemit.com/freedom/@ura-soul/why-power-does-not-corrupt-and-why-those-who-enslave-us-would-like-you-to-think-it-does)
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I don't imply that is selfish or wrong to help yourself. It is if that is only thing you want to do. If you are only interested making your life better no matter if something bad happen to someone beacause of it, you are ego maniac. When I mention word ego, I ment that imbalance in the ego that you mention. Nothing bad about self love of course.
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