>If you can't please yourself some of the time, how do you expect to please people all the time? not everyone is going to appreciate you for your efforts and deeds. Anthony Liccione

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Happiness is a choice. You are as happy as you choose to be. What other people think of you cannot rob your happiness unless you allow them to rob it. 

It is a fact of life that on our broken planet filled with broken people, there will always be those who will demean how you look, dislike what you do, disapprove of what you believe, dispute what you say, and disrespect who you are. But they cannot control your emotions unless you allow them. Disapproval doesn't have to devastate you

I have talked to most people who have invested much of their time and energy in trying to please an unappeasable person, most often a parent or other family member. When asked if all their effort has paid off, the answer is always *no*. I then share the truth that is tough to take at first but is ultimately liberating: *If you haven't gotten their approval by now, you're not going to get it*. The problem isn't you. They are the problem. 
 
But here is the good news, the truth that will set you free: You don't need their approval to be happy! So let it go! Stop wasting emotional energy on something that isn't necessary for you to be happy. They are miserable, but you don't have to be. There is no good reason for you to be miserable! 

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Instead of focusing on that unappeasable person, focus on things that fascinate you. 
It is not everyone who would approve your ways, ideas and decisions, there will surely be disapproval from people.  It is always good to expect unfavourable comments, disagreement from people in your life, we are all different and you must get that. We have different lives, have different beliefs, values, thoughts and emotions. 

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The diversities of lifestyles we have often make us criticise others we see different and disapprove of their values and ideas. This is the reason you shouldn’t try to please everyone all the time. It’s just not worth it. It will rob you of your happiness. 
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In the midst of disapproval you can still approve the things that make you happy and please you. You can always approve of anything if even others disapprove.


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