𝐘𝐨𝐮 & 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐌𝐔𝐒𝐓 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐒𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐫 𝐁𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐟𝐬 𝐎𝐫 𝐘𝐨𝐮'𝐥𝐥 𝐒𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐭! by cynshineonline

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hive-127096 · @cynshineonline · Sep 18 '21

$14.33

𝐘𝐨𝐮 & 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐌𝐔𝐒𝐓 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐒𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐫 𝐁𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐟𝐬 𝐎𝐫 𝐘𝐨𝐮'𝐥𝐥 𝐒𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐭!

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## <div class="phishy">If you and your partner don't have similar beliefs, you WILL split up.</div> 
⁣
#### Especially when it comes to the 'big' topics.⁣
⁣
## <div class="phishy">IN FRIENDSHIP:⁣</div>

If one partner believes in living a big life, and the other one is full of fears, blocks, and wants to stay small... the two of you will tear apart.⁣
⁣
## <div class="phishy">IN BUSINESS:⁣</div>

If one partner believes business is easy and the other believes profit requires hard work, misery, and sacrifice... this partnership won't last.⁣
⁣
## <div class="phishy">IN LOVE:⁣</div>
If one partner believes in evolved polyamorous relationships, and the other believes in a hyper-conventional monogamous one... y'all will split.⁣
⁣
The reason this happens is mother nature, physics, life.⁣
⁣
Humans are emotional creatures, and our emotions work on wavelengths, determined by our beliefs.⁣
⁣
We can have high-vibing emotions on a topic, or we can have low-vibing emotions on a topic. Everyone has felt this and experienced this.⁣
⁣
And if you take your high-vibes and try to hang around too long or too closely with a low-vibe person you'll create discord, disharmony, conflict, annoyances, fights, and energy drain.⁣
⁣
### It is 100% unsustainable and will not last.⁣
⁣
And if you're the high-vibing person, you're the 'leader' of the partnership (at least on the chosen topic.)⁣
⁣
This means it's your responsibility to separate quickly because you're the more evolved, developed, mature one. It's not the 'followers' responsibility to put a stop to it, no matter how much we wish it to be.⁣
⁣
And even though all this makes total sense and is inarguable... people still stick around in a partnership trying to "change" someone.⁣
⁣
That's not how it works.⁣
⁣
You can only influence people who are in close enough emotional range. It only works on people who have similar enough beliefs for you to work with and elevate. You can't influence people with totally opposite beliefs, and they'll likely just drag you both down together.⁣
⁣
Are you paying attention to the beliefs you and your partner have, or ignoring them?⁣
⁣
~𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒, 𝐶𝑦𝑛⁣ (& 𝐽𝑎𝑦)

P.S.


If you're interested in learning from the most amazing, thoughtful, clear, positive, loving, and genius teacher, @ryzeonline, about practical Law Of Attraction just email me: cynshineonline@gmail.com, and let's talk.

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@ksteem · Sep 19 '21

Don't agree with this one. But the pattern is common with many in today's world. In my experience the relationships (of any type) are the ones where the individuals are most tolerant and accepting of differences. This is one of the biggest problems in society today, many believe that everyone else has to think like them to be accepted, instead of embracing the differences and having good discussions on different perspectives, and respecting the others right to their different (even opposite) perspective.

A prime example is the current vaccine drama. Many people feeling strong on both sides, yet often not respecting the other sides perspective or right to choose for themselves. 

I've seen many relationships fail because the "weaker" partner goes along and is "influenced" as you call it by the other. Eventually the "weaker" partner gets does start getting stronger, or just gets tired of not having their own needs met and begins to challenge the other stronger, often narcissistic partner, who of course, doesn't like that. And so it begins..

One of my favorite books on the subject is "The Human Magnet Syndrome: Why We Love the People That Hurt Us". by Ross Rosenburg.  

Enjoy!

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@cynshineonline · Sep 24 '21

All good I welcome disagreement and different perspectives. 

I spent 15 years in a shitty marriage putting my ex-husband first. He wasn't ambitious in any way shape or form and this caused huge massive, violent fights between us for years. If I had just admitted I needed someone as ambitious as I am then I would have found the right partner years ago. It took 15 years of hell to finally say enough and the moment I did, I found @ryzeonline and he's even more ambitious than I am and it's HEAVENLY! 

I'm grateful that I had the experience with my ex because now I know that ambition is a value that is non-negotiable for me forevermore! 

I'm not going to be tolerant and sacrifice my happiness for ANYONE ever again. I was raised to sacrifice for those I love and all it got me was drama, trauma, and pain, no thanks. 

Some people see being tolerant of other's bullshit as a good thing. I see it as a weak thing. Weak because people can't stand up for themselves and choose what makes them happy first. If I had just been honest with myself about the values that were most important to me then I would have been happier for those 15 years. But to each their own. 

I appreciate you reading and commenting, truly. 

Wishing you a wonderful day. 
Much love
Cyn

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@ksteem · Sep 25 '21

Ahh, key points you bring up being "reasonably" tolerant and sacrificing one's own happiness are at two very different ends of the spectrum. I think we are very much in alignment, just using different terminology. Tolerance of differences is a good thing. Sacrificing happiness or values is not. Glad you two have found each other, I'm sure many other like us have learned from past mistakes :) That's why it's called learning!

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@ryzeonline · Sep 18 '21

$0.08

What if I don't believe this? :P

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@cynshineonline · Sep 18 '21

OMG lol! You taught me it so I'm pretty sure You believe it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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@ryzeonline · Sep 21 '21

😁

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