<h1> Change Your Attitude, Change Your Reality</h1>  Every moment is fully unique. Let's take a brief moment to appreciate the surprising and wonderful combinations of scenarios and sensations that occur in life. That may mean we need to expend some effort in order to "pull ourselves" out of the perception that earthly life is *boring, monotonous, and hellish*. Or perhaps all that is required is to relax and experience the subtle feeling that is just below the surface of awareness, the calmness and peace that is available at all times yet can appear so fleeting due to layer upon layer of disturbing thought mechanisms that cloud that pristine joy. Indeed, every facet of our reality can be said to be of a paradoxical nature (when perceived from the level of duality), which is why in order to achieve any great end, there is the odd necessity of both great effort and great relaxation. To remain at balance we must obtain precision and clarity of focus, while also practicing the vast calmness that comes when one is engulfed into the shining void of perfect stillness. We become nourished by the aetheric rivulets of subtle currents that are everpresent in the cosmos yet impossible to fully detect externally. In fact we come to realize that life is not a grind, nor a drudgery, nor a torturous chore. Instead, these are the failed perceptions of infinity, and they exist to produce the psychic pain that is necessary to induce us to **change our attitude towards life**. They are the counterpart of physical pain (which instructs us how to maintain the body instrument.) Mental, emotional, and spiritual pain also instruct us how to maintain our higher faculties at full function. Therefore we return to gratitude for the vicissitudes of life in order to affirm that there is a greater context in which suffering is beauty itself, however obscure this realization may be in our present awareness. Today, right now in this moment, let us take a pause and allow a deeper awareness to soak into the core of our being. Let us cultivate a powerful focus that begins to increase the mindful energy that we bring to each situation. Let us allow life to become more real, more genuine; It can be fuller and more satisfying than we have been led to believe. Let us both passively and actively transform our attitude towards life and thereby change our personal reality. In review: * Each moment is completely unique. * A calm feeling is available underneath seeming chaos. * This calm feeling can be called pristine joy; it is the fundament of all other emotions. * Growth requires a mixture of effort and relaxation. * Our limited perceptions do not represent reality. * Painful perceptions motivate us to move beyond them into something greater. * Painful feelings motivate us to remove dysfunctional beliefs and to allow healing to occur. * Suffering is beautiful when seen from a larger context. * Through both active and passive means we can transform our attitude towards life. * When we change our attitude, we change our reality.  *I appreciate you taking the time to read this! If you enjoyed this short article, please let me know with a comment. I would love to hear one way that your attitude towards life has changed through the practice of becoming more mindful.* <h1>Writing: @d-pend</h1> <h1>Photography: @riostarr</h1> [Photo collection of natural beauty at sunset](https://steemit.com/nature/@riostarr/photo-collection-of-natural-beauty-at-sunset-koleksi-foto-keindahan-alam-saat-matahari-terbenam) [The charm of beautiful lake at dusk in my village aceh - indonesia [2]](https://steemit.com/nature/@riostarr/the-charm-of-beautiful-lake-at-dusk-in-my-village-aceh-indonesia-2-pesona-danau-yang-indah-saat-senja-di-desaku-aceh-indonesia-2) <h1>My other recent articles:</h1> [How Steemit's Growth Mimics Nature](https://steemit.com/steemit/@d-pend/how-steem-s-growth-mimics-nature)
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D-pend, you are so deep, so complex, so beyond your time. You see things on such an inner level that unless one has gone through significant joy and pain, they won't be able to appreciate the soulfulness you speak of. I love what you wrote, "Today, right now in this moment, let us take a pause and allow a deeper awareness to soak into the core of our being. Let us cultivate a powerful focus that begins to increase the mindful energy that we bring to each situation. Let us allow life to become more real, more genuine; It can be fuller and more satisfying than we have been led to believe. Let us both passively and actively transform our attitude towards life and thereby change our personal reality." I may have to have your words framed to remind me everyday, the profound ability we all have but don't know how to use it yet. You are so gifted that it blows my mind how unique and real you are. I wish I had more capacity to take your words and make it part of my core. Have your ever drawn pictures as another means of expression. You seem to have so much to express and I think you should use every avenue available to you to reach the people. Thank-you for sharing your beautiful, deep vision of what should be........Cabbagepatch
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You are so kind and I really appreciate all the thoughtful comments you leave. As long as my posts can reach one person that genuinely engages with them it's worth it to me. The encouragement really helps as a new user still trying to figure out my niche on Steemit and still meeting new people that are like-minded. As for this type of article that I write, you may be giving me too much credit! Because you see, when I create something like this I go into a flow state where I am not thinking too much about what I'm typing. It's like I'm just letting something across that needs to be said... for someone, somewhere... and also for myself. I just want to practice expressing in this way so that I can become more skillful at listening to and translating the inner urgent message that is needing to speak. As for drawing, it's something I loved as a kid and teenager, but always had a limiting belief of "I'm not good at drawing." I have a lot of fun when I do draw, but it's been a few years now. I appreciate you reminding me, and soon I'll have to give it a try again :D You're so right about using every avenue to express and to connect with people; We should all be doing that, it doesn't matter that we say "I'm bad at this, I'm bad at that" it's all a matter of practice and letting go of defeatist belief systems. Also we must remove this limiting idea that we are just ONE thing, such as an accountant, a mechanic, a musician, etc. We are all capable of MANY gifts and skills that are waiting to be awakened. Thank you so much again for your comment. As a token of my appreciation for all your kindness, I wanted to do something small to show my gratefulness. So enjoy an extra 400 Steem Power for the next four weeks. I know you will put it to good use supporting quality content creators and now you'll be able to support more people without your voting becoming drained since you will be able to use the voting strength slider. Enjoy!!! d-pend
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I really don't know what to say. I am so touched by your generosity. Words cannot describe what your comments and gesture have meant to me. Thank-you from the bottom of my heart. In a way, it is hard to accept such generosity but I will do what you suggested by using it to help support others. I will never forget such a deeply given act by a truly wonderful and caring and talented artist who will one day realize how much value he has to those around him and those he touches. Again, thank-you so much! When you didn't reply for awhile, I thought I had over stepped my boundaries so I decided to step back for awhile. I told my daughter that sometimes I tend to over express everything within me, not realizing that I may be putting too much pressure on someone. I have always been the type of person who can sense when someone is going through a hard or confusing time. I guess I am driven by something deep within my core. But I do need to also learn that occasionally I have to step back a little and breath. An old dog can learn new tricks if she remembers to slow down sometimes and smell the roses. I do not over exaggerate when I say, you do have a talent that you need to cultivate and share. Don't let self doubt or external judgments deter you from expressing yourself. Like I have to learn to step back sometimes, you have to learn to step forward. I know that when one holds things inside and suppresses his internal energy, it can lead to confusion, anxiety, self doubts and even depression. Who cares what others think. Just be free and express yourself. I can't draw or write poetry but one day I will try. Who knows, I might be the next Leonardo da Vinci! Trust me, your potential is more likely than mine! So in closing, I will try to step back a little unless I am compelled to write something. I will be much briefer and to the point. Please don't feel you have to reply on everything I comment on and I promise, I will write more if my internal being says to. Thank-you for your very thoughtful gesture and the touching reply you sent me. It really has made a significant impact on me, more than you will ever know. Thank-you!!! .....Cabbagepatch
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Nice post sir.i follow you.thanks
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Loved your article. Especially part about suffering being beautiful. As I learn to be more mindful and seeing things through bigger picture myself, I feel that way too. Without suffering I would not grow the way I have.
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Awesome, @d-pend I think the key point for me in your post is "Our limited perception does not represent reality" Coming to this realization was an eye opener. Even coming to an understanding that we live in a reality and not so much the illusion and programming that I had bought into about life. Changing your attitude to change your reality is indeed a launching pad from which to grow and evolve to higher consciousness. Keep writing and spreading the knowledge and wisdom, Thank You.
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