 ___Dear all,___ ___I pleased to everyone to read this story. There was a man in my home town few years back, he lived close to our family house, this man is so wealthy to the extent that he usually give away cars freely without collecting a dime, but hardly he pity the less privileged people around him. He only cared and show kindness to peoples of his same mate who are rich like him.___ When people seek help from him, he regarded them as least and ordinary peoples and told them he doesn’t help poor because when they grow up and escape poverty they will compete with his investment in the town. This wealthy man grew up in abroad he spent most of his young life in America, his someone who admire nature so well. He has visited traditional places nearly us to appreciate the beauty of our cultures. He took his children home from abroad after settled down and well established here. His children “Jade and Rachel”, these two children are so wonderful ,kind to their fellow students in their school. Infact these two children are so kind to poor children around, by distributing food, given them cloths and spend much of their time outside with neighbors children after school hours, sometimes they will invite childrens from outside to their father mansions to play together, swimming etc. They don’t followed their dad foot step. They are different entirely, they don't shared from their dad character. Jade and Rachel told their dad one day that they want to go with a neighbor friends to their farm land to see farm and explore the beauty of nature with a neighbor family on weekend, dad insisted he won’t allow them doing stuff with least peoples around coz they will change his children philosophy and ideal. He instructed the house keeper to watch over them, never to allow them out of the house. He personally took them to a popular beach in nearby town together with his driver. Jade and Rachel were so amazed to have experienced such a blossom environment and meet different people with diverse of cultural attires, Jade and Rachel asked their father they read in a book when they were in US about mermaid is it true that mermaid real or just imaginary? Daddy replied them what you read about mermaid is all true, mermaid is not an imaginary they are real, Jade and Rachel told him they will love to see one, dad laughed and pointed his finger at the sea he said to them mermaid is out there, they told him we want to try and see one, he opened the car boost and bring out tube and life jacket. Three of them went to swim. Few hour later they got out of the water, on their way home dad begin to orientating his children, see you don’t need to help the poor peoples if you do they will end up becoming your business rival, Jade and Rachel finally got convinced with their dad philosophy and ideology. Jade and Rachel, suddenly changed from their formal behavior because of their dad teaches, they avoid going out to play with fellow neighbor as they used to do before. Their lifestyle changes dramatically to extent that to avoid seeing their fellow neighbor their dad took them to boarding school, just to prevent them mingle with neighbors children. What a sad day when driver went to convey them home when they finished third terms academic calendar, when they got to half way, Jade and Rachel told the driver to drive back and took them to beach, driver insisted he need permission from his boss before he could do such and immediately Jade call dad and dad instructed driver to obey whatever they asked him to do, driver turn back and drive way to beach, when they got to beach, they get ice cream for themselves driver was stand behind them as guard. Jade and Racheal rent a tube and life jacket and jump in the water while driver stand still watch them, suddenly driver couldn’t see any of Jade and Rachel he shouted for help, divers, rescue team and other jumped in the water but unfortunately all their effort to rescued these little children was fruitless. Driver call his boss and feed him the sad scene. I want to cheap in these to you from this story, stop forcing bad attitude on your children, teach your children well, to be empathy and not sympathy, who know if Jade and Rachel dad could had allowed his children parapsychology to others this calamity might not had happen to them. ___Thank for reading___ .png)
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My thought is that there is too much competition nowadays. People focus so much on what they want to get (even if they already have more than enough) and who they have to beat in order to get it. This hyper-materialistic focus diminishes us as human beings. I think there is much more in life to be gained by focusing on mutual benefits between people. Instead, I think we should aim to work more cooperatively instead of competitively. When working cooperatively, you have to invest yourself into the success of other people and they have to do the same with respect to their relationship to you. It is to a person's own benefit to be empathic towards other if they are in cooperative, not competitive relationships.
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#JordanPeterson
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A wonderful post there @davidad, Parents are partly the makers of a child's outlook towards the world. My parents are extremely good and strict in making sure we always seek good even in bad people. Being judgemental is another important thing to suppress in parenting. #Humanity 💚👍
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Thank for your nice words.
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People can be so judgemental, they see only the surface of others, not looking past their present condition to see the roots of their social stature. We need to find ways to build pathways to mutual aid, so we can all work towards betterment of the entire world, not only our small corner.
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Thank for your nice comments
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