目睹3C對孩子的危害 by deanliu

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hive-105017 · @deanliu · Sep 5 '20

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目睹3C對孩子的危害

身為這一代的父母們，大概都知道什麼是3C保母，就是用手機、平板、電腦等，讓還小的孩子可以很快安靜不吵，全神貫注在遊戲、影片或是什麼好玩的App上。

從我兒TT小時候開始，我們就意識到這個東西是很厲害，卻也是很可怕的。

厲害在於，真的很厲害，幾乎對於什麼樣的小孩都有效，而且說不定是對於越皮的越有效。

可怕之處，其實就在於它有效，但卻有害。害在哪裡？專家都說的，先不論對眼睛視力的影響，主要是小孩在發展過程當中，不適合讓他們專注在這類無互動性的電腦程式中，而且常常遊戲會有許多暴力、聲光刺激(因為太過而不好)等等，這是鐵板丁丁的科學發現的...

當然，不適說電腦的東西就一定不好，孩子遲早會需要學習網路與電腦，這對於學習是極為重要的工具...但是，往往父母們就很容易用這表面的理由說服自己，其實骨子裡是需要一段安靜的時間... 真的要用電腦查東西等等，我個人認為上中學再開始都還來得及，也許現在的現實生活不太允許這麼晚，那至少小學五年級再開放也好...

看過太多地方，父母讓五歲以下的幼兒看著平板，孩子就呈現著魔或是癡呆狀態盯著螢幕看，真的是很不舒服的感覺... 但我們自己帶這個也是非常難帶的兒子，絕對可以體會有很多父母真的是沒辦法，真的是太累了，被逼到得用這一招。其實我們也會偶爾用，例如跟朋友出去用餐帶小孩，為了不破壞平和氣氛，偶爾讓他看久一點，也是沒辦法的事。

但就像是用毒品，你偶爾用、有意識地用，那或許是可控且甚至是健康的（考慮父母的身心狀態的話），無限制、自欺欺人地用，那就是會有很不好的成癮現象。

https://cdn.pixabay.com/photo/2018/03/20/03/00/geyser-3242001_1280.jpg
<sub>*pixabay*</sub>

今天晚上我們在某美食廣場，就目睹了一位媽媽帶著兩個兒子，因為小兒子開始跟媽媽搶平板，媽媽不給，開始大發脾氣，讓我們開始注意到他們。兒子明顯已經非理性，媽媽看起來也快爆炸了，就是堅持不給，上演搶平板拉扯與大叫的戲碼。媽媽力氣大當然勝利了，兒子開始狂吼，然後又上前突襲搶到，媽媽站起來，他就站到椅子上去，被勒令1,2,3給我下來拿過來，最後又被媽媽拿走，於是兒子鑽到桌下坐在地上哭...

在僵持了5分鐘之後，媽媽同行的親友回來了，媽媽於是帶著大兒子去上廁所，後來小兒子哭累了，慢慢才恢復，坐到椅子上...

....

我們不是看戲，我們感同身受。

絕對同情這位媽媽，儘管我們沒見到，但也絕對確定，這個孩子之前被"餵養"了多少3C是絕對不在話下。

媽媽可憐，孩子更可憐。孩子表現出暴力與憤怒，其實需要的是頭腦更清楚的父母，無論你們有多累多想放鬆，都不能在這一點上放鬆。老話一句，你要生，就要負責任！

當然，整個社會沒事就在那裏叫人生孩子，不管每對夫妻的情況，也是非常糟糕的事情。許多夫妻就是在這種親族或社會壓力下去生了超乎自己能力的孩子數量，然後最後只能在壓力下教養...這樣真的是比較好的嗎？

每次看到這種情況，就會慶幸我們的堅持是對的，卻也很擔心，孩子的這個世代，是否會充斥更多暴力人格...

台灣社會對這一塊的忽視，真的有一點到令人髮指的地步了...或許，只有我在髮指吧？😖

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@cshin · Sep 6 '20

现在很多家长都喜欢用3C产品安抚苦闹的孩子…但是想不用3C产品的话，家长需要付出很多时间…带孩子们接触大自然，给他们培养其他的爱好。

而身亡家长的，就是最缺乏时间吧。有时候还是挺难的…

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@hqy · Sep 5 '20

大家都发指，又无可奈何。

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@deanliu · Sep 5 '20

我印象中歐洲有立法規範幾歲之前不可以讓孩子接觸3C，否則是觸法。甚至我印象中，大陸不久前也有類似的政策...只是不知道後來怎麼了...

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@oflyhigh · Sep 5 '20

有利有弊吧
我们现在用平板给孩子辅助学英语，还是很方便的
至于游戏之类的，限制他玩的时间

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@deanliu · Sep 6 '20

嗯，有些孩子比較可以控制，那就比較容易有好處，就怕家長沒在注意就麻煩了

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