**D&TT** ( #deantt) 是我的育兒系列,也許談養兒,談育兒,談當年生兒,談媽媽懷孕時,談家庭形成,談生命意義,談我兒TT的好笑,可愛,可憎,或記錄他的生活,我們的生活,三個人的,兩兩的.... Anything about TT。 ********  TT昨夜終於退燒了,今天白天也沒有再度燒起來。雖然還在咳嗽,總算,我們看到光明了,雖然還在隧道裡,但已經知道出口就在前方,終於放下一顆懸著的心。高燒超過四天,整個病程持續了將近一週,跑了兩次急診,大人們都快要倒下了,總算。 於是,今天我開始恢復平日的工作模式,離開家裡,到外面跟人碰面討論。走在路上,像是離開一陣子後回來,充滿一種陌生又熟悉的感覺。走在路上,對著迎面而來的上班族們,心底大喊“哈囉!好久不見啊,我又回來這世界了!” 呵呵,被關小孩監,關了一週,放風後,特別懂得珍惜這種平常的日子。 今天又開始看一些新聞與資料,也才一週,就讓我覺得跟世界有點脫節了。 我不禁聯想到一個我聽過的說法,真的覺得是太傳神了,大致上是這麼說的: >**生孩子之後,你的人生就像是按下暫停鍵。** 我不禁想起過去這些年,真的好多好多事,就像是按下暫停鍵。好多年不曾進電影院,小孩還小時有好久好久時間不曾去吃過火鍋,因為吃火鍋太花時間,好久沒去小旅行,就算是去了,帶著孩子也不會有太多悠閒的感覺.... 比起結婚,生孩子真的更是改變生命的超級 game changer。 偶爾,你的心底還是會升起這個疑問: >這一切,都值得嗎?犧牲這麼大.... 尤其是,原本就對自己的生活有很高掌握程度的人。我傾向不認為這問題有標準的答案,每個人有每個人的故事、對人生的期待、對孩子或家庭的期望。所以,我從不鼓勵人生小孩。說真的,別人的生命,我們有什麼資格提出建議呢? 至於我,我確實也想過這問題。但,有一句台語的俗諺,也算是蠻傳神的我的答案: >愛到卡慘死。 哈哈,沒有字面看起來那麼可怕。這句話的表面意思就是,愛上了,你就只好無奈的接受你的命運。不過,我對於我兒,比較沒那麼多負面意義,主要是強調,對我來說,無論犧牲多大,我都覺得不後悔,很開心,痛苦並快樂著~~ 對,即使我的人生得暫停,但慢慢的,會開始慢速播放,總有一天,會再回到正常的節奏,沒有關係。即使,會對於過去年輕時的日子,感到懷念與渴望,但這都沒有他重要。 套一句我老婆的名言:生小孩之前,要去玩到夠,那麼,之後不論再怎麼累,你就比較沒有遺憾了。(似乎有點類似結婚前要玩夠?不過這兩個"玩"的意義應該不同。) 暫停之後,我們已經不是暫停之前的那個人了,我擁抱這個轉變,也希望所有願意按下暫停鍵的人都是如此,否則,大可不要按下去喔! ******** #deantt
author | deanliu |
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permlink | 5vvp4p-d-and-tt |
category | deantt |
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voter | weight | wgt% | rshares | pct | time |
---|---|---|---|---|---|
abit | 0 | 349,549,343,406 | 100% | ||
jademont | 0 | 30,176,487,235 | 10% | ||
coinbitgold | 0 | 54,749,667,163 | 80% | ||
wongshiying | 0 | 140,155,044 | 100% | ||
mark-waser | 0 | 27,226,914,136 | 25% | ||
blockchainbilly | 0 | 20,097,909,372 | 50% | ||
deanliu | 0 | 1,402,957,704,425 | 100% | ||
daynewright | 0 | 17,018,394,505 | 65% | ||
team-leibniz | 0 | 54,884,948,140 | 40% | ||
ace108 | 0 | 285,408,003,227 | 25% | ||
laoyao | 0 | 34,590,418,678 | 100% | ||
somebody | 0 | 1,282,189,592,871 | 100% | ||
midnightoil | 0 | 123,366,477,532 | 100% | ||
xiaohui | 0 | 696,758,323,045 | 100% | ||
oflyhigh | 0 | 2,390,520,394,325 | 100% | ||
xiaokongcom | 0 | 235,174,151 | 100% | ||
yulan | 0 | 14,519,013,838 | 100% | ||
rivalhw | 0 | 1,750,872,262,849 | 100% | ||
chinadaily | 0 | 200,652,115,386 | 100% | ||
helene | 0 | 771,415,541,837 | 100% | ||
ethansteem | 0 | 185,339,198,250 | 100% | ||
davidjkelley | 0 | 1,363,587,875 | 25% | ||
digital-wisdom | 0 | 14,957,702,777 | 25% | ||
ethical-ai | 0 | 4,927,994,614 | 25% | ||
jwaser | 0 | 5,739,892,934 | 25% | ||
damarth | 0 | 721,207,416 | 3% | ||
ellepdub | 0 | 430,258,954 | 25% | ||
rynow | 0 | 11,247,612,636 | 2% | ||
herpetologyguy | 0 | 51,314,338,928 | 25% | ||
amylee | 0 | 165,732,848,198 | 100% | ||
strong-ai | 0 | 4,186,536,113 | 25% | ||
siniceku | 0 | 100,570,151 | 100% | ||
luneknight | 0 | 386,023,308 | 100% | ||
busy.pay | 0 | 1,340,644,553,011 | 9.33% | ||
lalala | 0 | 122,166,731,801 | 100% | ||
dapeng | 0 | 80,038,814,762 | 100% | ||
devilwsy | 0 | 2,183,158,417 | 100% | ||
janiceting | 0 | 2,180,890,710 | 100% | ||
lydiachan | 0 | 25,179,651,599 | 100% | ||
technoprogressiv | 0 | 3,174,395,825 | 25% | ||
blackbunny | 0 | 103,558,497,434 | 100% | ||
chessmasterhex | 0 | 202,414,253 | 100% | ||
lingfei | 0 | 64,780,334,542 | 100% | ||
yyyy | 0 | 445,350,222 | 100% | ||
wylo | 0 | 609,881,658 | 100% | ||
cryptoted | 0 | 112,853,322 | 100% | ||
jkkim | 0 | 76,723,970 | 10% | ||
nanosesame | 0 | 151,082,008,820 | 100% | ||
victorier | 0 | 85,814,989,539 | 100% | ||
exec | 0 | 83,050,690,677 | 100% | ||
eval | 0 | 784,382,316 | 100% | ||
livinguktaiwan | 0 | 43,304,483,899 | 36% | ||
that1consultant | 0 | 300,841,625 | 100% | ||
sanzo | 0 | 351,319,811 | 100% | ||
sweetieprincess | 0 | 31,139,793,747 | 50% | ||
travelgirl | 0 | 57,053,959,425 | 46% | ||
zeekcryptominer | 0 | 310,473,235 | 100% | ||
syh7758520 | 0 | 5,206,542,629 | 100% | ||
liangfengyouren | 0 | 1,490,065,318 | 50% | ||
idx | 0 | 18,299,814,493 | 100% | ||
rudnicki | 0 | 380,026,222 | 100% | ||
marcoharley1995 | 0 | 609,061,897 | 100% | ||
fr3eze | 0 | 76,277,723,691 | 50% | ||
nainaztengra | 0 | 269,513,668,994 | 100% | ||
tvb | 0 | 35,540,869,246 | 50% | ||
floatinglin | 0 | 16,091,449,461 | 55% | ||
davidke20 | 0 | 1,780,209,941 | 10% | ||
ms8988 | 0 | 602,448,519 | 100% | ||
kettleandseagull | 0 | 10,699,570,071 | 100% | ||
xiaoshancun | 0 | 293,846,933 | 100% | ||
victory622 | 0 | 185,984,387,789 | 100% | ||
bobdos | 0 | 214,583,068,769 | 100% | ||
winniex | 0 | 3,299,471,442 | 10% | ||
love-peace | 0 | 1,233,113,807 | 100% | ||
kimxinfo | 0 | 8,954,119,998 | 100% | ||
windowglass | 0 | 16,662,258,375 | 50% | ||
cnbuddy | 0 | 4,343,658,467 | 0.1% | ||
chann | 0 | 4,998,233,548 | 20% | ||
santiagocazorla | 0 | 611,934,887 | 100% | ||
coindzs | 0 | 170,263,072 | 100% | ||
antonsteemit | 0 | 7,387,382,836 | 50% | ||
cathvanlael | 0 | 119,862,675 | 100% | ||
comingback | 0 | 256,074,360 | 12% | ||
yjcps | 0 | 1,822,924,168 | 95% | ||
btccurrency1 | 0 | 60,820,159 | 100% | ||
ethanlee | 0 | 9,970,898,784 | 100% | ||
eondas | 0 | 446,205,583 | 100% | ||
doctormartin67 | 0 | 603,635,625 | 100% | ||
honoru | 0 | 593,259,350 | 50% | ||
lzg | 0 | 255,680,643 | 50% | ||
fishlucy | 0 | 22,701,718,239 | 50% | ||
pgr | 0 | 219,924,636 | 25% | ||
china-mobile | 0 | 541,939,258 | 100% | ||
xiaoyuanwmm | 0 | 240,751,771 | 100% | ||
tydebbie | 0 | 1,035,347,605 | 50% | ||
ybeyond | 0 | 124,111,769 | 100% | ||
team-cn | 0 | 123,353,064,053 | 100% | ||
weitz | 0 | 257,134,952 | 50% | ||
tecire | 0 | 606,678,485 | 100% | ||
jerseymikes | 0 | 606,270,868 | 100% | ||
coder-bts | 0 | 11,769,736,028 | 100% | ||
chick-fil-a | 0 | 608,182,913 | 100% | ||
redlobster | 0 | 610,799,833 | 100% | ||
fiveguys | 0 | 608,285,680 | 100% | ||
marcoy2j | 0 | 281,328,646 | 50% | ||
shuxue | 0 | 436,382,864 | 100% | ||
wuli | 0 | 436,752,009 | 100% | ||
huaxue | 0 | 436,752,003 | 100% | ||
shengwu | 0 | 436,751,991 | 100% | ||
tiffany4ever | 0 | 113,491,129 | 50% | ||
dealmoon | 0 | 609,296,119 | 100% | ||
moonbbs | 0 | 609,186,117 | 100% | ||
bonefish | 0 | 609,102,486 | 100% | ||
chilis | 0 | 609,141,157 | 100% | ||
olive-garden | 0 | 609,102,486 | 100% | ||
zhuanzhibufu | 0 | 429,359,727 | 100% | ||
shine.wong | 0 | 158,801,636 | 100% | ||
shuxuan | 0 | 473,776,362 | 100% | ||
xiaowucw | 0 | 461,519,164 | 100% | ||
menshealthblog | 0 | 493,532,857 | 100% | ||
new-voices | 0 | 611,895,605 | 100% | ||
nozuonodie | 0 | 611,201,023 | 100% | ||
yamibuy | 0 | 611,201,023 | 100% | ||
zongli | 0 | 430,522,112 | 100% | ||
jidgabol | 0 | 146,434,208 | 100% | ||
bunnymandy | 0 | 167,955,630 | 50% | ||
geopogi | 0 | 1,539,620,413 | 100% | ||
teamcn-weekly | 0 | 610,526,137 | 100% | ||
teamcn-news | 0 | 610,526,137 | 100% | ||
roy-rogers | 0 | 610,526,137 | 100% | ||
wenxuecity | 0 | 610,526,137 | 100% | ||
huaren | 0 | 610,529,467 | 100% | ||
mitbbs | 0 | 610,529,467 | 100% | ||
teamcn | 0 | 610,526,137 | 100% | ||
cn-health | 0 | 609,781,973 | 100% | ||
cn-doctors | 0 | 609,781,973 | 100% | ||
wongmanman | 0 | 262,957,163 | 50% | ||
kissfirer | 0 | 608,329,487 | 100% | ||
lkvictor2005 | 0 | 8,032,737,538 | 100% | ||
cryptomechanic | 0 | 362,127,712 | 100% | ||
circassian54 | 0 | 182,447,984 | 100% |
what does that mean?
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category | deantt |
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朋友說孩子出生那天,他就被判了20年坐牢!
author | livinguktaiwan |
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permlink | re-deanliu-5vvp4p-d-and-tt-20180731t081134013z |
category | deantt |
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他出獄了嗎?其實,20年後,也只是假釋,刑期其實是無期徒刑。LOL
author | deanliu |
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category | deantt |
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恭喜公子恢復健康呀~劉美女又可以出道闖江湖咯🎉 話說,其實我不覺得是暫停鍵啦,只是「不得不」把部分的我要分出去給一個我應該要去愛的人~~我說的不是另一半哦!~~。欣喜是大部分時候啦,但是總有那麼些瞬間會去想,如果未結婚如果未有小孩我的人生會不會好一點? ~~來自一位日常恐婚者的留言~~
author | nostalgic1212 |
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我覺得婚姻跟孩子都是一種短空長多的性質,可是呢,短空是確定的,長是否多呢?這又取決於跟另一半合適不合適等等,也沒有保證的。反之,單身確實短期自由自在,但老了還是有可能會有孤單的問題。不過,比起不幸的婚姻,偶而孤單的單身,似乎又更勝一籌? 哎,人生~~~^^
author | deanliu |
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permlink | re-nostalgic1212-re-deanliu-5vvp4p-d-and-tt-20180801t070110021z |
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哈哈,人生嘛,總是存在有the road not be taken的問題。不過,我現在很enjoy自己的狀態啦,每天都很忙碌也覺得有意思~~每天睜開眼睛就是學習!賺錢!~~
author | nostalgic1212 |
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created | 2018-08-02 04:33:06 |
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恭喜,这阶段快熬出头了,希望你家TT早日康复!
author | shine.wong |
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permlink | re-deanliu-5vvp4p-d-and-tt-20180731t073142249z |
category | deantt |
json_metadata | {"tags":["deantt"],"community":"steempeak","app":"steempeak"} |
created | 2018-07-31 07:31:42 |
last_update | 2018-07-31 07:31:42 |
depth | 1 |
children | 4 |
last_payout | 2018-08-07 07:31:42 |
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謝謝啦!一階段一階段,當成打電玩破關好了,反正我也“暫停”好久沒打過電玩了~~ LOL
author | deanliu |
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category | deantt |
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last_update | 2018-07-31 07:39:18 |
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children | 3 |
last_payout | 2018-08-07 07:39:18 |
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root_title | "[D&TT] 暫停鍵" |
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哈哈哈~那是不是应该把娃当游戏角色??😂
author | shine.wong |
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permlink | re-deanliu-re-shinewong-re-deanliu-5vvp4p-d-and-tt-20180731t074249623z |
category | deantt |
json_metadata | {"tags":["deantt"],"community":"steempeak","app":"steempeak"} |
created | 2018-07-31 07:42:51 |
last_update | 2018-07-31 07:42:51 |
depth | 3 |
children | 2 |
last_payout | 2018-08-07 07:42:51 |
cashout_time | 1969-12-31 23:59:59 |
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root_title | "[D&TT] 暫停鍵" |
beneficiaries | [] |
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post_id | 66,608,735 |
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