It's funny how random memories pop into our heads, from time to time.

Earlier today — while I was driving into town to go to the printshop to make copies — I got to thinking about a former manager of mine, from my relatively brief stint in the Korporate IT industry.


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*Do you feel lucky?*

This was someone I actually learned a *lot* from, and one of the lessons that has stuck with me had to do with the strange relationship between *natural aptitude* and a *desire* to do something.

It is evidently a fairly common philosophy that a person who wants to get ahead in life should do whatever it is they *excel* at or have *natural aptitude* for. Tom — aforesaid manager — always disputed that, insisting that you owed the *nobody* to pursue a particular *(career)* path no matter how *good* you might be... if it didn't appeal to you.

He used the example — which I could deeply relate to because it was also true for me — of how he was naturally *"gifted"* when it came to things like understanding and organizing number systems, and that he could have been an *exceptional* accountant and auditor... but he basically *hated* those fields and found them as dull and tedious as watching paint dry.


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So he basically *ignored* everyone pushing him towards finance and accounting and found a lot of satisfaction and contentment in *motivating people* in a high level management position, somewhat removed from actual hands-on number crunching. 

Before that, he had spent a lot of time as a motivational speaker, primarily in the marketing field... of which I had relatively *little* knowledge. However, he loved the banter and interaction. In time, he was offered the managerial position he held when I knew him.

He admitted that he was probably a *lesser* division manager than he could have been partner in an accounting firm... but he didn't really care.

It was a good lesson in both *how we measure success* and in *staying true to ourselves.*


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I have a very fine education in Finance and Marketing from a top business school — with *"High Honors,"* even — but I have never really been in a field that makes much use of that skill set... and I have very little *desire* to be. I also have a *minor* in English... and these days I *"get mine"* primarily as a book editor and writer... and even from writing blog posts for venues like Hive. Because I really *enjoy* doing that.

The closest that Finance degree gets to actual *application* is perhaps trying to understand how the crypto markets work!

Which brings me back to the fact that what we *love* and what we are *good at* aren't necessarily going to be the same thing... and we have to figure out what it is that is *really important* to us. 


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Now, you might wonder why I pursued the particular University degrees I did... and it mostly had to do with family pressures and expectations that were brought to bear *before* I had much of a voice of my own  and well-developed sense of self. *"It"* was simply *assumed* that I would become a so-called *"Captain of Industry"* because I seemed to have a natural... *"gift"*... for that sort of area.

All these years later, I am actually glad I *didn't* go down that road... even though there were times it seemed like I would have been a shoo-in for a highly compensated and influential job. 

Heck, I've never even had what you might call *"a career!"* 

And there it is!

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