Life is not same for all. Some people start enjoying the life till old age and nothing goes wrong for them. Some of them struggle forever. In that case I also went through this cycle and learned about few things of life.
### People Change with Time and Needs
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This is one of the logical lesson we learn from the life. That people are around us because we are offering them something. And that means the needs of a man if addressed by another person they tend to get closer with that person.
Time teaches other people that they have to constantly think of the survival. Some ways the life is teaching us to deal with each other. Some people don't want to learn that but with time and struggle we realize that people change and it's not their fault.
### Survival Choices Make you Good or Bad
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Some times we take action based on what we need for the survival. And that means we take the good and bad decisions based on that. And that means other people will judge you good or bad. And that's what a lot of people learn pretty late.
Nobody is born good or bad. But some people are going to do bad things because they want to be one up on the survival. And it can get pretty difficult on the life scenarios. Life is kind of like that it makes you take tough decisions.
### Love is Selfish, Money Rules
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I have never seen anyone getting love of their life after 30. It's always the money that wins. Before reaching the 30 they learn this lesson but they don't want to admit the same. Love is purely selfish and everybody wants to ignore that.
Money always wins in the relationship, friendship and the society. There is no strong value and the status without the money. People tell you otherwise because they are living without money and want to believe that.
### Ego is pointless, So is Empathy
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If you show empathy to people, it would make them use you. And they would be coming to your life and keep on using you. And that's something you would be experiencing forever as well. So empathy always is not a good thing.
Ego is pointless too, because you can't hold onto the ego forever. And that is one of the things that would make anyone get disturbed. Some people just don't understand this fact and they want to change their mindset.But controlling ego is a necessity.
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I feel that life in each 5 year phase is going to show you different results. And it is likely to change the way you plan things and do things. Because if you continue to stay where you are then you are not going to experience anything.
You have to keep on moving. Because 30 to 40 is one journey and then 40 onwards another set of journey with acceptance and letting go of the life. So if you happen to make those changes then you would do lot better.
I have yet to reach 40 but I suppose there would be more lessons learned till I get there. Let's see where life takes me and teaches me anything new.
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