What is life really made up of? Often we go though life never thinking of all the little things that go on around us.

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>Everything begins somewhere. The most extraordinary things come from something that is so often looked over, the small and simple.
*[The True Value of Steemit.](https://steemit.com/life/@dragonslayer109/23bsds-the-true-value-of-steemit)*

Where can we relate these small and simple things?
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Lets give this a simple answer: Everywhere.
Simple answer right? but a really large effect. Now how to break this down in to small pieces? If we look at everything, it is all made up of really small things... both physical, emotional and many other other areas. I will only be concentrating on one in this post.

Relationships
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Ever wondered why relationships break apart? Why she/he is no longer so amazing and special? If we have a look at the very beginning of every relationship, it starts out with just a thought and a feeling.

Whether it is a friend or romantic based relationship, two things stand out or begin the building of these relationships. 

**Time**
In any relationship, the more time you spend building and strengthening the relationship the better. Yes you could get your love at first sight, but think of it this way. That is only one short moment, what happens after that is what keeps that feeling going.

**Actions** 
Actions speak louder than words. Often relationships die out due to one or both stop doing what they did to get the person in the first place. Often we also miss or overlook the small things we do for each other to strengthen the relationship. 

Many small things in a relationship get overlooked as it becomes expected or just routine, we also don't notice them because we no longer looking for them. It is really easy to fall into this trap, it can even have a circle effect to it. 

How to avoid this trap? One can't just simply wake up the next morning and start to notice all these small things. It just doesn't happen like that, sometimes the other person in the relationship doesn't even notice what small things he/she is doing. 

So don't be discouraged, you are in this together, maybe work on this problem together. This could strengthen your relationship even more and have a long lasting effect, on the way you act and react towards each other and your general outlook on each other.

Is it worth it?
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Come on guys it is simple and small things you need to do. You don't have to go catch a grenade or take over the world for the person you love. If it is really worth it (don't bother if you don't think so) you would do anything and everything to strengthen your relationships. You have no idea what a simple good morning message or just a simple hug can do for a person, at the right moment. 

Relationships are worth it, whether it be a friendship or a romantic relationship. We learn form each person we engage with and all it takes is a simple hello or even a smile to create a huge impact. 

Conclusion
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Do you want to create something big with a large impact on your life and the life of others? Do something simple: ***look for all the small and simple things people do and compliment them on it*** 

Have a great day.