time is relative - if they have time for you, chances are they aren't a relative

kinda sad that the people that should be there for you, but arent, and the ones that are, are the ones u dont expect

my friend is in the process of planning his nans funeral atm.
one would think the ladies son or daughters would assist.
instead they are having no input, and have said they probably wont go. - yet are giving him a hard time about the plans he is working on
im worried for his mental health as i can see a lot in him of what i had in me - having the family members to keep them grounded - one of 2 is gone, once the 2nd is ( which im sad cos i know may not be long re: 40 years married, often the 2nd dies from 'heartbreak'

when that happens, i feel sorry for the person to 'do him wrong' after that - cos his nan and pop are the only thing 'keeping him out of jail for the wrong reactions'