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One of the problems you could have as a person is always getting shy and the majority of people don’t know that this could be a problem not until you start missing out on opportunities. Being shy will keep you hidden, most people will not know anything about you. Also, it will hide your potential of what you could do and this is one of the main reasons why it is good to put yourself out there. The reason why I’m writing this post thing that being shy affects our ability to ask.

When you are shy, it is very difficult for you to ask questions and this is a major problem in a lot of people‘s lives. They are shy and they find it difficult to ask questions and at first, it might not look like it is not a big deal but if you can't ask questions how are you going to know, and if you don’t know, you will remain ignorant while some of your friends are making it big in life, you will still be there with a big potential just because you are shy to ask questions.

*Ask*

Asking is very powerful, and if your major problem is that you don’t know how to ask, you may not achieve anything good in life. One of the easiest ways to be successful a life is to be a good and intelligent asker. There is a saying in the Yoruba language that he who asks doesn’t miss the road because if you don’t ask, how are you going to know? The main reason why you are finding it difficult to make an impact to be successful in life is that you choose not to ask. Some of the answers you need to become somebody in life are behind you asking the question.

If you want to do anything in life, you have to start by asking yourself the right question and sometimes for you to get a good answer you just have to ask yourself the right questions. It is very important to ask yourself those questions but maybe you're shy or you cannot ask yourself intelligent questions might be very difficult for you to be successful. For some people, they are their problem because they don’t know how to ask the right questions, and also how to ask questions intelligently.

*Ask and you shall receive*

Most times people are willing to help you, but because you are shy and also because you find it difficult to ask intelligently, you don’t receive and this might be help or an answer to what you need. If you don’t ask, there is no way you could receive, and like I said, you can be your downfall just because you fail to ask questions intelligently. Always try as much as possible to ask anything you want to do and starting by asking makes a big difference.

Thanks for your time.