It is really a great privilege once again to partake in the @ecotrain and #qotw challenge, it's really awesome as another interesting topic is drop for the week for people on the platform to share their own thoughts and experience about it.

I really find this particular question interesting as it definitely deals with "actions" of an individual in life or attitude towards something or steps taken to achieve a particular goal on your own courage and self-determination towards it.
# If not you then who?

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We live in a world where as humans we are definitely entitled to our own opinion in one way or the other but in the area or aspect of making decisions matters a lot because not everyone can handle things themselves without the advice of other people in their decision making, rather they believe taking other people's idea or decision is the best solution to their problem.

The truth is no one will live your life for you as those people you believe taking their decision or advice is the best also have their own problem they are actually facing and that also requires them to take action themselves.

The question is "are you a man of your words" or you live under the shadow of other people as your backbone in life. The truth of the whole scenario is that tomorrow is not promised and human being can fail you at any time because nobody is perfect. So if not you then who will bring positive change to your life if you do not prepare for the future and take steps in conquering any obstacles or challenges your facing.

You have your life to live and also you have a say to yourself because nobody have two heads in making a right decision in decision making, with the aspect of taking your own decision you can definitely go a long way in different aspect in life because you've taken that courage to stand out against all odds and self determination in the aspect of achieving your goals where it needs to be achieved. 

# If Not Now Then When?

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Like I said earlier tomorrow is not promised because the life we live is borrowed. Your determination and courage need to be put in action earlier before it's too late in making or taking action towards something or a desired goal for success.

As humans we behaves differently in life when attempting or making decisions, some people fall in the side of being indecisive which is a quality that some may not be definitely proud of, and it is no doubt that such people exists regardless of who they are and what position they acquire they still lack something in that area.

The main point or fact for this to happen  or is happening in such people's life is that their mind is divided into two in the step of making decisions towards something, whether it is right or wrong to take step so as for them not to take blame from people, and for such people is a very scary  thing to do in taking that part or action. 

Such people mind is always diverted to the negative aspect in life, where questions would be asked that what 
will happen if I make the wrong decision? Will I be put to shame if I take such step?

The truth is that their ways to eradicate the fear of making wrong decisions for yourself and also won't bother to seek the help of other people if throughly you want to stand out and be a man of yourself in making your own decisions.

#### Tomorrow is too late start making your decision now in other to enjoy your success tomorrow.