A good relationship exist when both partners understands each other in every aspect of their lives regardless of any issue that comes their way they can be able to tackle it to avoid conflict among themselves.
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It good to be in love especially having someone besides you that understand you quite well and will not have any negative doubt or thought towards his or her partner.
All this can always happen when two lovers always sit themselves down to know each other's weakness because nobody is perfect, and also no perfect relationship but for you to make your own relationship perfect is to know each other's weakness so as to tackle it or know how to handle it each time it occurs.
There's an adage that says "The devil you know is better than the Angel you don't Know". What this simplify is that always see your partner's fault as something you can handle instead of deriving negative thought or decision that you want to quit because you can never tell the new person you are about to meet if they have the right quality or character your looking for.
So I believe understanding matters in a relationship if both partners always tell each other the truth and always have discussion of things they like and also dislike, if both partners are good to go then it is a perfect relationship for them.
Though it won't be easy but trust me it's worth it because most partners derive trust issues from their past relationships so it really affect to trust again especially when it involves cheating.
A good relationship eradicate blames because it only makes things even worse when trust issues occurs. In a relationship If your beginning to notice a little change from your partner and you feels something is fishy don't just jump into conclusion, take your time and be cautious to not blame your partner for things your not sure about.
Before making any conclusion, sit your partner down have a little conversation in a good way and approach in a good manner to avoid argument especially if you notice anything secretive, ask about the secretive behavior in a good way instead of making decisions your not sure about.
It will be better if you discuss about being jealous about such act, or any trust problems that occurs rather than to flare up because it can't help instead your creating problems in your relationship and also yourself.
# ways to eradicate trust issues
## 1. Develop act of understanding
This can really help if both partners understands each other especially when issues wants to occur it is easily tackled
Because they quite understands each other very well, especially knowing each other weakness.
## 2. Erase negative thought towards your partner
This helps when you neglect any negative thought because it doesn't help instead it's creating room for problem especially when your not sure of something.
## 3. Avoid making decisions your not sure about
This is another way to avoid issues in a relationship always think positive and don't derive or conclude on things you don't know instead you ask questions.
## 4. Develop act of forgiveness
We all in one way or the other have trust issues but the way we handle it is quite different, but if we develop the act of forgiveness towards your partner if any little issues erase it will help.
## 5. Love your partner as you love yourself
This is a really strong bond in a relationship "love" it really goes a long way if you show your partner love or every other people around you especially if they are at fault, it will help because if any issue occurs what should come to your mind is nobody is perfect.
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