One of the key things all humans have is called Self will, the power to make decisions and choices all humans are independent to certain level. And this is one thing that cannot be taken from us.

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It is this individuality that makes us complex, with unique characters and behavioural patterns, traits everyone with its own specialty, and so it becomes very difficult when trying to change these narratives about people especially when they have grown over time to adulthood with this concept in their minds.

This is primarily the basics issue people have when they venture into relationships after been blown a way by physical attributes of the opposite sex, this believe of "I can influence this person with what ever I have I can coarse them to do my bidding", not for getting the fact that this person also grew up with their own personalities with their own self-will to choose to do and or not to.

Some times when I look at religion in Africa and some other part of the world how so called men of God uses these means as of God to deceive people brain wash them and convinced them to do their bidding not per Se but believing that it is truly God who speaks thru them, you see people fall into these traps.
especially in business when someone will device a means to scam people and because of our lopsidedness we fall for all of these ploy to get wealth only to realize that we have been scammed 

God who created man had the sole right to make man obey him, to worship him to the last, man is God's Creation that necessarily would do his will without any consideration. But still God raised man up to his own level to think reason and act like him not withholding anything from man gave it all, including the ability of self will to choose and make decisions and also to bear the consequences of his own action, that self will today is the reason why many are divided against even their own self confused and disoriented about what to do.

Talking about all this things it really would surprised you how many will choose weakness over good, wrong over right, crime war distruction of lives and property over peace love, oneness, unity and togetherness, man have choosen to do the other way, but one thing remain constant, and  can never change, that is The consequences of our action and inactions over time, whatever one choose to do there are consequences awaiting.

About relationships deception is now the other of the day, because we no more seek reality but rather go for mundane things physical things that only appeal to the natural sense whether it adds value or not whether it be true or not, it doesn't matter anymore just immediate self gratification and satisfaction is on the table, long gone are the days were truth could speak for it self but now we all have wolves in ships clothing pretending disguising to be true instead it's fault.

When one comes with true intentions to be with, he did be trashed and thrown a way because he is not flashy this now makes men to go about doing all sort of things just to woo a girl to their nest and do whatever they want.

On the other hand if a girl is not curvy and goodlooking she won't be accepted and so she had to go take supplement  to enhance all parts of her body to attract what she wants 

And so I look at the human race  at how deception has taken over the very fabric of our lives, truths and sincerity is no we're to be found what can one do if mankind has decided to go down this path join them or stand your ground maybe in your little circle you can create the big change needed to turn things around.

I am @eminentsam48 thanking you for Reading and hoping to see you in my next post