Sometimes I imagine what life would be like if I had a robot that could do all my house chores. I’m talking about everything sweeping, washing clothes, cooking, looking after the kids, cleaning the bathroom, even ironing. All of it. Just imagine waking up and finding your home neat and fresh without lifting a finger. Tempting, right? But the truth is, as sweet as it sounds, I’m not so sure I would want one.

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First of all, chores are stressful, no doubt about that. There are days I feel like I’m drowning in housework. Wake up, clean, cook, shout at the kids to stop messing up what I just cleaned, then do it all over again. It’s tiring. So yes, the idea of a robot doing it all for me seems like a dream come true. It’s like finally getting a break that never ends.

But then, I started to wonder what I be doing while the robot was doing everything. Will I just lie down all day watching movies? Will I now be bored because I have nothing to keep me active? At first, it may feel like rest, but after a while, it may feel empty.

Also, I’ve come to realize that chores, as annoying as they are, give some kind of structure to my day. They make me move, they make me feel responsible. When I cook for my family, it’s more than just food. It’s love. It’s bonding. When I clean the house, it’s not just about the dirt. It gives me peace of mind. If I hand all of that to a robot, will I still feel connected to my home?

And let’s talk about the kids. I believe children need to see their parents doing things. It teaches them responsibility. If a robot is the one bathing them, feeding them, and playing with them, how will they bond with me? They might even prefer the robot’s company after some time. That thought alone scares me.

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Another fear I have is that we humans can easily become too dependent. It starts with little things like letting a robot wash our clothes. Then it becomes bigger letting it plan our lives. Before you know it, we’ve forgotten how to do basic things. We may even lose interest in learning anything new. I don’t want to be that person who can’t boil rice without a machine helping out.

That doesn’t mean I hate technology. In fact, I use it every day. My phone, my washing machine, and my blender all help me save time and energy. But the key word here is help. I’m still in control. The day I hand over full control to a robot, I feel like I’m giving away part of my life.

If I had such a robot, maybe I’d use it once in a while. Maybe on the days, I feel really tired, or when I need to step out and I want the house to stay in order. Maybe it could help out with tasks I don’t like for example scrubbing the toilet or cleaning behind the fridge. But it shouldn’t replace me completely. I still want to be part of my home, not just a visitor in my own house.

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With the extra time I get, maybe I could rest better. Maybe read those books I’ve been ignoring, or spend more quality time with my family. I could even learn a new skill but even with all that, I don’t want a robot to do everything for me. Life is not just about being free from work, it’s also about finding meaning in the little things.

So, would I get one of those perfect robots? Maybe, but only if I can switch it off and still be able to do things myself. I want balance. I want help, not total replacement, there’s a certain joy that comes from doing things with your own hands even when it’s hard. That’s what makes us human. And I don’t want to lose that.

This is my response to this episode of hivelearners community prompt of #hl-w169e1 which the topic is tagged ***ROBOTICS HELP***

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