### Look, there are two worlds. The real and the ideal.
**The problem all idealists (like me) is that we constantly forget the world in which we live.**
<code>Spoiler: in the real world.</code>
*I recently read a story about how the girl had refused to represent the school in Competitions, because teacher's congratulations was sexist. I share her ideals.*
**But she forgot that she lives in the real world where the teacher is a normal adult woman of the old generation. It is normal that she has no idea what sexism is and how this thing works.**
*Or more relevant story.*
**As everyone already understood, I live in Russia. Putin recently joked about menstruation, in an interview. Of course, I believe that this is unacceptable. Of course, I think the joke is stupid.**
#### But look, Putin is sixty years old man who spent his entire life in the Soviet power structures. To be honest, I miracles from him tolerance do not wait.
*Well, or take the most pertinent example: me.*
**I for body positivity, I'm for equality, I'm up for anything "socially-party".**
**But I still try to keep myself in shape, remove hair on different places and to respect elders people.**
#### Of course, I want to live in a perfect world where plump me no one will criticize, and between people will disappear forever conflicts, but in this world I do not live.
**And it is impossible to bring this ideal world to a sharp jerk. Only slowly, only gradually, small steps.**
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<code>I write all these posts for you. I talk about my ideas to those who are willing to hear about it. I try to behave in accordance with their ideals. But the rest — I'm just part of that real world. Unfair and sometimes very rude.</code>
#### I believe that the key to universal happiness is to be mindful of both worlds: the real and the ideal.
<code>When you live in the real world, try to meet the standards of an ideal world. But when you live in a perfect world, do not judge strictly those who live in the real world.</code>
### After all, how then can you change the real world if you still cannot understand it?