Sometimes in life you see yourself going through unexpecte situations that you have no opinion over I myself have been a victim to such situations asked or let me say forced to do what you don't like to do starting from my home where I lived with my grandma there are certain things I don't like that I was been forced to do I never liked eating beans but instead of understanding with me she used it as an excuse to discipline me, it now came a point where I have no other option than to agree to her how will it feel the food I don't like is now the best food of the house and am being forced to eat it at all times.
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   After that I also dislike sewing alot I never liked it but I was also forced to go into sewing clothes I came to think about it why is it that am always been forced to do what I don't like to do i swear it was like living in hell because I go through pains each time I thought about doing what I dislike the most it always made me sad I think it's not a good experience at all it never will be how can you embrace difficulty with your own hands without having a word to say or making any suggestions it's really a big disaster it was very sad to me I was never happy I was always thinking negative things because I really did not know what to think or do they had the upper hand I had to obey them at all times I never disobeyed them I just did what they say to make them happy and it made me sad.

  Nevertheless I came to a conclusion that whatever comes I will have to embrace it by faith that everything will be okay someday there will be a time where I will make my own decisions and no one will comprehend yes it has to be because the sad situations am going through now is just a gateway to success.

 I really took my time to think about the situation and I decided to face it without fear it wasn't easy and it wasn't it wasn't enjoyable too but all because of the grace of God I conquered and now I believe am myself now living very happy no body forcing me on what to do or what not to do I have to make my own decisions and am happy because I only do things that makes me happy things that gives me good memories.

 When I remember so guess this is the best life the experience I had then was a sad one no one will ever enjoy such encounter but it is advisable to face your fears never accept defeat just deal with whatever it is, it's just gonna last for a while be strong to overcome any difficulty at all times. You are not the first, and you won't be the last to encounter difficult, therefore embrace it, when it comes.