口頭禪是一種最誠實的標籤。是你的專屬標籤。同一句口頭禪,說在不同人的口中,都會有不同的效果。這是一種下意識的情感反射。記錄了當下的面貌、心境、態度、情緒,以致於人生觀和價值觀。這是一種很赤裸的識別標籤。而最弔詭的是。口頭禪總是在不自覺的狀態下說出來的。是以你可能一直不自知。要不是別人告訴你,你可能一輩子都不會察覺。原來你在毫無防備的情況下,給人留下了這麼的一個印象。然後過了N年,人家再次提起,你就會想:「哎呀,原來我曾經是這樣的。」 大學認識的另一半有個好處,就是我可以隨時隨地想當年。例如趁著無聊看電視的空檔,忽發奇想的問一下:「你覺得我同讀書時期有啥分別呢?」可能因為廣告時段很快就要結束了,是以我得到一個簡潔而冷漠的答案:「其實沒有什麼分別~」 喂,怎會沒分別呀,那我的光陰不是虛渡了嗎?我鍥而不捨的問:「你想想啦,一定有的。」為要打發我,他想想便道:「唔...妳以前經常說人家幼稚囉。看見同學說什麼做什麼不對頭,就在那裡噘著嘴道:『咦,幼稚!』」最後,對話結束前,另一半又補充了一句:「其實最幼稚的是妳啦~」嘩,簡直一鎚定音噢。 有嗎有嗎?我真的曾經是這樣的嗎?怎麼我一點印象都沒有呢。然後,我真的覺得好神奇。原來我大學時期還是那麼喜歡裝大人。為啥我會這樣說呢?是因為從小到大,我習慣了同大人打交道。聽他們的歌,看他們的電影?是因為我一直缺乏同齡玩伴,就以為自己思想好成熟,以致於我總是覺得同學的行徑很幼稚? 我不知道呀。可我確是比較喜歡同成熟一點的同學做朋友。兩個小大人的話題既無聊又認真,看真都很好笑。對於同齡或年幼的朋友呢,我總會裝成個大姐姐。像我的鄰居小妹。我們年紀相差不過幾個月。但我總會擺出一副大姐姐的模樣兒對她噓寒問暖愛護有加。年初一到舅父家裡拜年,我總會甩開表弟們的小手,然後躲進表姐們的房裡一起談天。 ![andre-hunter-PhuGmoubvo8-unsplash.jpg](https://images.hive.blog/DQmdMUf9oLq6NdkqRLUBWKRA8QXtodEVbMjCtmXsrUHU3X7/andre-hunter-PhuGmoubvo8-unsplash.jpg) source: unsplash 人總是在別人口中才能看清自己的。雖然我的變化不大。可隨著成長,我發覺我的稜角還是磨平了許多。至少今天我一定不會說這樣的話吧。即使總是詞不達意,還是會盡量顧及別人感受。也沒以前那麼幼稚了吧?你呢,你又記得你當年的口頭禪是什麼嗎?
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<a href="https://tipu.online/hive_curator?magicmonk" target="_blank">Upvoted 👌</a> (Mana: 75/95) <a href="https://peakd.com/hive/@reward.app/reward-app-quick-guide-updated" target="_blank">Liquid rewards</a>.
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謝謝支持!
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嗯……我的口頭禪……大概就是「隨便啦」「都可以」「好麻煩喔」(突然覺得自己這個人很不討喜😂😂😂
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哎,不討喜還好,我簡直是討人厭😂😂😂
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