My life has many turning points in which i had passed my 20 years of span and now i am quiet mature enough. I have learn many things from this points where i got very much upset as well as angry and make today a person who is independent.
At the age of 20 now i am independent because i had learn something from this turning point and as i remeber such things my mind get diverted into this things.
When i was studying in college i had a grat experiene once my friend has said me you cannot earn anything in my life with many people were hearning this and he said like this and i got husrt very much and decides now will do aomething for me notfot others. 
The samee was the turning point of my life and i had got online sites like ateemit musing and scorum where i had a passion of writing and writes good blog here to earn something.
This was the truning point of my life and i decided will show him i was something for one day as you told me on that day that i was nothing. 

<p>Turning Point is an important event that can change a person's life from a saturating situation, again finding an injection of enthusiasm to live life. From starting to take shelter behind the shield of the comfort zone, then dare to face challenges and risks. No matter how small this turning point is the momentum that can provide change in our lives. Don't Forget, that everything that is big, always begins with the first step.</p>
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The First Step Is Open Minded</p>
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Open your mind and heart to receive input from every event that might be a way to find a turning point in our lives. Because not infrequently things that seem trivial and ignored it is precisely the way to find the turning point in our lives<br>
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hemselves and feel confident that their fate has become a laborer for life, Conversely, if people have closed themselves and feel confident that their fate has become a lifelong lifelong, then they will never find a turning point in their lives. Although presented with an opportunity before his eyes, he will refuse and not be sure of himself. Even though life isn't just for today. Just relying on your shoulders and muscles to work hard, will only make money to eat today,<br>
One time, an event happened that caused itself to no longer be strong to work hard with muscles, then people are aware of themselves, that they do not have a pole to lean on and do not have a roof for shelter.</p>
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<p>And this does not only concern the life of one person, but affects all family members, who depend on one person. Because it needs to open up, to be able to find a turning point in our lives.</p>
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Find and Find</p>
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Everyone has a turning point in their lives, but not many know what a turning point is and what their turning point momentum is. After we recognize the turning point of life, then the next step is to get up and find a solution for change. Even if the slightest turning point is momentum which can be a point of self-awareness and changing mental attitude. But of course it must be followed by effort and hard work, so that the turning point results in a change. Everyone needs to hone sensitivity to the slightest turning point in life and when they find it, immediately get up the way. Like the green light is on, of course we have to move forward. This kind of momentum must be addressed wisely in order to be the key to achieving the dreams of our lives. Dare to dream big, believe and do it. Don't wait tomorrow or postpone with various reasons. Because delay means negating<br>
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Inspiration and motivation are indeed colors for life. That is the reason a person behaves and behaves.

In Psychology, it is called external motivation or external encouragement. The encouragement can be from social support such as family, hope, reinforcement or reinforcement of behavior, punishment and so on. So that it can be said that where humans behave or behave, there must be motivation in it both internally and externally.

Maybe for some people inspiration and motivation come from great and successful people. Great people who are defined as having achieved success, especially in a field that feels the same.

Other successes such as finding an invention, achieving wealth, success in studies etc. But on the other hand, there are some people who take ibrah or lessons from people who are somewhat disadvantaged.

I might go into the second statement for now. My inspiration was obtained when watching a private television station program and this made me find the purpose of life and the choices to come.

A little telling, I initially thought that success was a result. The point is that when producing something or achieving an amazing achievement. But when I began to enter the world of lectures in the realm of psychology, I reflected on something about success.
The result is success is a process. But that does not mean blaming success is a result, it only depends on how we perceive it. I feel that enjoying a process will be more meaningful to life, so success for me is interpreting this life.

The search for the meaning of life began at that time. The question often raised in the mind is "how to live as a human?"

The answers to these questions are useful to humans or love human values. This has a term called philanthropy.

As a human being must have a sense of empathy for fellow human beings. With empathy, someone will feel how other people live life.

In fact, as in the context of fellow Muslims where a hadith narrated by Bukhari states that if a brother is sick, then he will feel the pain of his brother.

We can generalize your term to the Indonesian people, because we live in the shade of the Indonesia Raya flag. So that we will love and help each other to fellow citizens of Indonesia.

In this context, I am one of those people who are often very easily influenced or empathized with others. Until one time, when I saw a private television station that told a child from 9 years old named Wida must be the backbone of the family.
The family in question consists of the girl, her elderly grandmother, and a student with special needs. There was no father, because he had died a few years ago.

There was also no mother there, because according to the story her mother left the child to the country opposite and until now without any news about it.

Under these conditions, Wida had to sell food at school when the break time arrived. The food obtained from his brother was made before leaving school.

After school, you don't go home immediately, but you have to bring the materials to be traded tomorrow. Wida gets a salary from the proceeds of the sale, and the results are divided again to her grandmother and the rest is saved. The evening activities are filled with studying or studying religion.

As a human being, especially after learning about humans, I was very empathic and inspired at the same time. Out there according to the age of psychological development, enter into the final children. This period is certainly in fact or theoretical is the age of play and creative.

Some of us who may be given the pleasure of not needing to think about how to make life tomorrow. We are not charged with seeking daily supplies, including myself.

On the other hand, it may grow strong mentally for a child, but support or involvement of parents is needed for its development. Because parents not only support materially, but emotional attachment is comfortable for children. It's very unfortunate indeed, school and play must be divided with many problems.