Hello guys or should I say, my friends
Today We are talking bout another point entirely, under the reasons people like to tag their EX as the worse one or the devil they were saved from, hehe am serious because I have heard people say this.
The Reason we are looking at is "Fear of the unknown" yeah calm down let's elucidate it together.
Source:pixabay
Fear of the unknown can simply be put as fear of not knowing what might happen next minute or even the next day, so as this fact remains in our heads, there is a part of us that still don't know what will become of our Ex-lovers.
What if they become really successful?
What if I don't become anything?
What if I fail without this person? Etc.
So we tend to anticipate their turnout in the future and we build a mindset that
" if they are not successful then God had saved you from being with an unsuccessful person"
But if the case is different like they later became very successful and wealthy then we give excuses like
"maybe God saved me from a particular danger by separating us"
Source: a screenshot of a movie on my phone.
If we are in a relationship because of what we project our partner to be in the future, then we are not in love we are in business expecting good and fat returns or dividends of your investment. So if u lose any partner because He/she thinks you won't be successful enough for them, then you are better off without such a partner, they are not lovers but investors.
The main bone here is no one wants to accept they are the bad ones or the reason the love story ended, but that shouldn't be the reason for us to nurture ideas and excuses to put the other party in the black books of people around you.
*see you lovely people on the next series of this Gist.* 
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