The rapidly moving Lifestyle that we all are living is something that is very much needed in this super connected world as everything that we do is going to have a certain impact on other people as well because we are dependent on other people and other people are also dependent on us and in this particular manner everything seems to be like a thing that we need to be committed in as well as the social obligation is that we need to maintain is also something the puts a lot of pressure goes take a back seat amidst all of this.

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Everyone aspires to become that particular person about whom everyone can be depending and becoming the dependable person in everyone's life is something that is going to be a very good thing to be as well as it is something that we intend to do and due to the and we do make a lot of commitments to people without thinking about the actual repair questions that it can have with itself with it something that we need to be understanding because we are in a world where committing something definitely holds a lot of value and doing that endlessly put a lot of strain on us.

Suddenly when we are committing a lot of things to lot of people it becomes and habit and that leads us to over committing to people and that is something which is not going to be able to be handled by us as we are not capable enough to be dealing with a lot of things and one and that is something which is definitely going to be a very bad position to be in which is why it is very important to be setting boundaries with the commitments that we are making.



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Many people feel that not committing something to someone and also stopping ourself from commitments is going to be indication that we are quite selfish but it is quite the opposite because the we are prioritising our ownself as the mental health of ours is going to be very much protected in that particular manner as well as we are also going to be having a little bit of time for our self which is something that we don't think about it all in this modern world which is also extremely necessary and choosing the actual things that we need to be getting ourselves involved in is also something let me need to be thinking a lot about rather than endlessly committing.

Over commitment is something that never really gets notice until it is at a very hued scale and it is a habit that we can develop over the time and we don't even know this as well because it just seems to be a little bit of extra task for us but it files on on which other making it something that is impossible to be dealing with and also drains out our energy completely which is something that is a very not so good position me in.

We need to always understand our limitations as well as also the things that we are needed to be doing as committing everything to everyone is not the very best decision that we can be making where has we should be very much thoughtful about what we are doing and also the things that we are getting involved in which is going to be extremely necessary and amidst all of this we should always be having some time for our self as well as the things that matter for ourself.



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It can be very difficult to be saying no to people but at the same time it is very important to be having that ability to be declining people because there are a lot of things that are involved with rejection one of the biggest factors is going to be the fact that we are going to be disappointing other people but it the same time we need to be thinking about our ownself as that is something that we don't care about a lot of time as the Temptation that we get under the pressure of not saying no is also something that we need to be dealing with and he is going to get easier once we start to realise the actual impact that it has on us.

Keeping the boundaries that I am going to be very much necessary with the commitments that we are making is going to meet you me important in our life as it is going to be allowing us the energy and time and also the better mental space to be dealing with things that are important and necessary for us and that is habit that we need to be developing and also speaking to for the long run which is going to be extremely important for the things that we are going to be involved in.

Once we implement all of these boundaries we are bound to be notice in the results that we are going to be achieving with the help of it because it will big boosting or confidence point a lot and also channelising our energy in the best possible scenarios which is going to be very much efficient and all the productive for us because attend of the day boundaries are not something that is going to be pushing ourselves away from others but maintaining the safe distance between the things that are important and are going to be harmful for us.

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