Define Yourself or Somebody Else Will by funnyman

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meaning · @funnyman · Sep 11 '16 (edited)

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Define Yourself or Somebody Else Will

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<p>There are two kinds of people in this world, one is who <strong>define themselves </strong>and those who are <strong>defined by others</strong>. What you want to be? <br>
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<p>Let me first explain what defining yourself actually refers to? <strong>Defining yourself</strong> is a way to see yourself with your own <strong>perspective</strong>. There can be multiple perspective like physical <strong>appearance</strong>, <strong>achievements</strong>, <strong>failures</strong> and a lot more. Based on these facts you will be <strong>judged</strong> and <strong>manipulated</strong> by others. Now the only thing that matter is how you see <strong>yourself</strong>? Do you want to have a good physical <strong>appearance</strong> or you want to be <strong>intelligent</strong>? Do you care being &nbsp;<strong>judged</strong> or care more for your <strong>achievements</strong>?<strong> No matter</strong> what you do you will always be judged and <strong>manipulated</strong>. Some people will always <strong>criticise</strong> you even if you make everybody <strong>rich</strong>, <strong>happy</strong> or any good thing that comes to your mind.&nbsp;</p>
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<p>Some people are like a<strong> testing machine</strong>, they will always try to find the <strong>bug</strong> in your life that you are most <strong>scared</strong> of, so that &nbsp;you <strong>dance on their decisions</strong>. They will try to enclose you into a <strong>box</strong> and no matter how hard you push back, the box is going to <strong>withstand</strong>. Paying too much attention to others perspective about yourself is called “<strong>Defined by others</strong>”.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Now the crucial part comes, Are you really doing what you wanted to do in your life or <strong>unconsciously</strong> being forced by others to do what they <strong>wanted you to do</strong>? Do you care about your <strong>decisions</strong> you make or are you <strong>dependent</strong> on other’s decision? These are the most important questions that you need to ask yourself honestly. &nbsp;</p>
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<p>Well, I focus more on <strong>inner beauty</strong> rather than outer <strong>beauty</strong>. I make <strong>decisions</strong> that would bring me one step closer to my <strong>goals</strong>. I am no different from others, I also <strong>fear</strong> of being <strong>judged</strong> and <strong>manipulated</strong>. But I am doing my best to avoid these things by being <strong>conscious</strong> about it. There is a saying that if you know you are wrong or weak at some point and doing nothing to <strong>overcome</strong> it then this may be the <strong>biggest mistake </strong>of your life. <strong>Pay attention</strong> to areas that you know deep somewhere you should take<strong> steps to improve</strong> it. &nbsp;</p>
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@alchemage · Sep 11 '16

Great post with wonderful ideas. I definitely agree with everything you have to say. 

If I may add, your grammar and formatting made it difficult to read through the piece. I found myself constantly going backward to reread portions of the writing. There are great online grammar editing tools that may help; they aren't perfect but most are pretty decent. 

Thank you for taking the time to write this up and share it. :)

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@funnyman · Sep 11 '16

Thank you for reading @alchemage. Yes, I know and I am working on it. Thanks for the recommendations.

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@lifeworship · Sep 11 '16

not sure it's either/or. laugh at yourself or someone else will. maybe it's define yourself first so when someone else does it , it will  be irrelevant. i think i understand your points. just striving for clarity.

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@funnyman · Sep 11 '16

You got a point but I have used "or" in respect to this post. There can be different meaning of different words at different places.

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@lifeworship · Sep 11 '16

whenever i see two choices i always look for more. it's kind of becoming reflex. otherwise i feel like i'm being herded.

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@mindhunter · Sep 11 '16

Great output by the @funnyman - business as usual :)

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@funnyman · Sep 11 '16

Thank you for reading man!!! You are a great supporter @mindhunter

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@mindhunter · Sep 11 '16

Pretty hard to be an anti-funnyman!

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@patelincho · Sep 11 '16

Keep smiling !

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@funnyman · Sep 11 '16

you too. Thanks for reading @patelincho

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@positivesteem · Sep 12 '16

We need to defined ourselves in order to live a life that honest and true to ourselves. No one else can live our lives for us. Only then can we live a life that is purposeful as well as enriching.

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