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· @galenkp ·
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Dented and scratched
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I'm the unofficial custodian of my families things; Since the passing of my mum and subsequently my dad, I've held antique furniture, artwork, ornamental pieces, jewelry, documents and photos with the intention of handing them to my siblings and their children at the right time. It wasn't a role I wanted, it happened by default as none of my family were here or had the ability to transport and store the items. 

I believe it's those items, the things that have been in a family for a while, that help bridge the distance between generations and help those who come next to understand the past, and their ancestors, a little better. That's why I went to so much trouble to keep them and now, with my niece and nephew getting to the ages at which they can enjoy them. I feel it's a great privilege to hand them out.

Some of those things are toys and, whilst I've given most away, I saved some special things which will go to my niece @smallsteps and my nephew when the time is right and the opportunity arises. As it turns out, I'm seeing my nephew at the end of the week after a day spent on a plane travelling to where he lives four thousand kilometres away. In my suitcase is a collection of toys that used to be his dad's, my brother, when he was about the same age as my nephew. 

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These toys aren't in pristine condition; in fact they were second hand when my brother got them forty six years ago because mum and dad didn't always have the means of buying new things. But it didn't bother my brother and it won't bother my nephew; they will be used and appreciated just as much as if they were new. Come to think of it, probably even more. 

The last few things I handed to my nephew had my brother's name on them, hand written in marker pen by himself, and my nephew thought that was so excellent that he wanted to write his own name on there too. A couple of the toys in these images also have his dad's hand written name on them and I think my nephew will, once again, want to add his own. It's incredible the way he understands the importance of toys of this age, that they were once his dad's toys and now his to care for. That's cool right? 

I've not told my brother I'm bringing these toys so I think it'll be a surprise for him too, one I'm looking forward to springing upon him and my nephew. These dented and scratched toys will, I hope, bring my nephew enjoyment and I believe my brother will be happy to see his son playing with toys he, himself, once did. They will gain additional dents and scratches I'm sure, but when my nephew hands them to his own kids that'll just add to the story I think.
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Do you folks have toys in your possession that have spanned generations of your family? Maybe it's not toys, but some other item that has been with your family for some time? Feel free to tell me about it in the comments below, I'd love to hear about it.

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@andrastia ·
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Those are really special and I am sure that your little bonkers nephew is going to jump for joy when he receives them. Sometimes the importance of things being passed down is lost on kiddos but it sounds like he gets it. I love that he wants to add his name under your brothers, so sweet. 

I think he's going to get such a big surprise when he realises you are there for the visit, I can't wait to read a post on his reaction, please do share it with us 🙂
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@galenkp ·
I was just on the phone with him a half hour ago. He was telling me about his new torch. I asked what he does with it and he said *turn it on.* 

OK, I get that nutbag. I then asked what he does with it after he turns it of. He says, *I turn it off.*

I asked I guess. Lol.

He'll like the toys. His favourite toy is the blue Tonka pick up truck I gave him when he was here last, two years ago. It was his dads and he tells people so all the time. He's pretty proud of it. But for now...the torch get's all his attention. 
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@andrastia ·
Hahaha I like the way this kid thinks. Torches are awesome toys so I get the fascination. When you are there maybe do one of those sheet shadow plays with a torch for him, I think he would love that (unsolicited idea there, sorry). 

If he acknowledges that these items date back years and are family heirlooms then he'll look after them. Gonna be so cool when you get there. 
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@creativemary · (edited)
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I wish I had stuff like these , passed on from one generation to the next generation. I see my drawings & my books becoming some of that lol, hopefully my kids will decide to keep them because they are quite many and one of my precious possessions, in terms of emotional value.
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@galenkp ·
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I think your artwork is exactly the sort of thing your children will value and treasure; maybe even more than toys because you created them. I wish I had the same to pass along, but you've seen my drawing and no one in their right mind would want one! 😁
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@creativemary ·
Hahaha I hope the same. Maybe it will worth something to them or maybe it will inspire them to pursue art more seriously. I would definetely watch from the sky smiling knowing that I have left the best of me as a legacy
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@joanstewart ·
Boxes of toys and other bits and bobs needing attention over here, some to go down to family some not sure what to do!

Always a thrill when next generation enjoy the toys or heirlooms passed one in a family, yes something to start looking at again soon, have handed some over not all. 

Cannot take anything with us one day, so make sure they get to where you want them to go!

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@galenkp ·
Exactly, none of my stuff can come with me to where I'm going. Down there 👇 probably. Lol. 
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@joanstewart ·
Feels like I just did the return journey, so most definitely nothing at all! 

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@meesterboom ·
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Those little car toys are timeless. I managed to get some from my youth and pass them on to my kids. They were most happy. There is something about a toy that has associations and memories
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@galenkp ·
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So many kids would turn their noses up at a dented and scratched *old toy* but not all. I didn't get much that was brand new as a kid and learned the value of looking after what I had. My nephew is the same and I think he's going to love these trucks when he sees them. He's a good lad.
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@meesterboom ·
Yeah, I was like that too. I got a millennium falcon one time that was severely beaten up and missing bits. Still loved it!!
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@positivesteem ·
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These are not mere toys but family heirlooms. I am sure that your nephew will treasure them.
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@galenkp ·
Yes, that's true. I believe he will value them and I'm pretty sure my brother will respect, and be happy about, the fact I took the time and trouble to save them for his son. It's been years and years and now I get to hand them over. It's a good feeling. 
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@tengolotodo ·
That is brilliant Galen and I think that your nephew will love getting them, and your brother I am sure will be surprised.
It is adding up to a fun and very rewarding trip!
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@galenkp ·
I'm really looking forward to it man, I *need it!*<div class="pull-right"><a href="/@hive.engage">![](https://i.imgur.com/XsrNmcl.png)</a></div>
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@tengolotodo ·
Getting closer now!
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@zedamna2022 ·
Am I missing something sir @galenkp??? Does that mean you have managed to visit your nephew which is 4000 KM away?

Does that mean your nephew will receive the new toys you bought 2 days ago plus his dad's old toys? 
I'm curious, is the new toy or the dad's toy more appealing to your niece?
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@galenkp ·
> Does that mean you have managed to visit your nephew which is 4000 KM away?

I fly on Friday. 

> Does that mean your nephew will receive the new toys you bought 2 days ago plus his dad's old toys?

Yes.

> I'm curious, is the new toy or the dad's toy more appealing to your niece?

My niece is in Finland so is not going to receive either.
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@zedamna2022 ·
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Glad to hear you're still keeping some of the old stuff and across generations. It's like a bridge in your opinion. Cool, with it you return to the memory of the past and with it you also pass what you went through to the next generation. Each generation will definitely feel meaningful, that their memory is always well-preserved.

I also have something that I received from my father and gave to my son, so I can share what you are going through and feel too. Right, it's a connecting bridge.

I think the second most expensive after love are memories. Everyone loves to be remembered and prayed for. My father is happy to know that his childhood toys were also played by his grandson. What a grandfather wouldn't do for his grandson, right? 

But when he found out in his grandson's hand it was his toy as a child, he looked happy and I put my arm around his shoulder. He thanked me and said "the way your son wears the toy, just like I used to". 

(I hope my son will take care of it too and someday when I'm a grandpa, I'll say the same thing my dad said about the toy)
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@galenkp ·
I agree, it's important to impart a sense of belonging, an attachment to the past, in children as I believe that helps them carry that forward to those who come next. I shows respect also. 
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