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Motivation for the day, learn to forgive yourself of the past hurt.
While I am trying my best on reviewing posts as a steemit professor, I am also trying all I can not to ignore project.hope community because it means so much to me. To my lovely readers, I will be sharing something to motivate you for the week.

You know very well that the society we live in is very good with making people think about their past all the time, the influence of social media exposing people’s life to the public is not in any way helping people forget about their troubles at all, but irrespective of how the world is pushing us, there is a need to maintain our sanity by closing our eyes to the ugly incidence of the past.

There is something that we can do with the past, we are meant to draw out lessons from it and allow it direct us towards the path of making better decisions but we must never allow this past mistakes draw us backwards from making progress in life.


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Life is not perfect for anyone and most times we seem to make costly mistakes that may draw us back for a brief moment, but then we also have the power and ability to break away from the chain of the mistakes we have made in the past and fight for a more rewarding future that lies ahead of us. You might have made a lot of bad relationship mistakes and still get a good marriage at the end of the day, you may have lost so many golden opportunities and just be fine at the end of the day, but you can only be fine if you forgive yourself of those reckless mistakes that you made initially.

You need to wake up every day with the realization that you are in no way a perfect being and you are not exempted from making mistakes, this will make you realize how well you need to forgive yourself and look towards a redeemable future. The future is packed full with a lot of opportunities and making the best use of those opportunities will make it possible for a greater achievement.

It is a limiting attitude to always remind ourselves about the awful mistakes of the past, I just want to remind you to about the need to forgive yourself first and heal yourself of all the past pain so that the future goals you have in mind will be attainable for you.
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@awah ·
Hi @gbenga - I often feel that if there is a possibility in life for something to go wrong - I walk straight into it.  My history seems littered with problems but I always feel that the hard times make us strong and wiser.

Great post my friend - have a !wine on me.
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@joseph1956 ·
Grandparents used to say that the past is the past and that it was important because it helped us not to make the same mistakes. Now if you do not recycle what happened and you live hating and not forgiving what happened to you, then you will be a bitter person and you will live believing that everyone is the same and will hurt you. Forgiveness frees the soul from what made us unhappy and at the same time makes us more human, because no one is perfect and we all deserve a second chance. @tipu curate 2
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@gbenga ·
Thanks for the response @joseph1956 we must learn to give ourselves a second chance because we truly deserve it.
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@tipu ·
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@lennyblogs00 ·
It's just that we need to bounce back and believe we can do it, actually, things that we consider as 'bad' isn't bad it's just that we (Humans) only see the instant consequences if it's good... actually if it's what's want then it's good for us even though it might be not, and if it's what not we want we will consider it as bad even though it might turn out t be on our favour.
Since I believe that "Good things come to those who wait" I will always be positive, optimistic and happy about every day and every decision I make, all I need to be patient and follow the signs.

I like your article, thanks for the motivation.
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@mccoy02 ·
This is epic thanks for the motivation let the past be a thing of the past and embrace a better tomorrow while we still can.
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@papa-mensa ·
It is always a tough decision to let go of past hurt and pain but it turns out to be a decision that pays off a lot, thanks for the motivation.
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@reinaldoverdu ·
We must bear in mind that the past is simply what allows us to build the future, weather we learn and develop better skills.

In the same proportion that we understand what we should use what we leave behind as something that educates us, then we can be more at peace with ourselves.

It is a process that due to social networks currently costs a lot to assimilate, because as you mentioned, I have not, they are not emphasizing it all the time, but creating discipline can be achieved. And always working from the optimistic point of view, understanding that all this is for our development and that it is not something detrimental to our life.

As I always say, we must face situations with optimism!.
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@gbenga ·
Thanks for the wonderful comment @reinaldoverdu having a positive view and attitude towards life helps a lot.
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@valchiz ·
This is a really helpful piece. As a person I really find it hard to forgive myself most times of mistakes I have made and actually believe I don't deserve chances anymore. Thank you for shedding light on this .
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@gbenga ·
Thanks for reading @valchiz, please learn to forgive yourself more often.
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